Suggestions for someone who’s used the Aneros for more than a decade…

Hi Folks,

I’ve used the Aneros (MGX, Helix, Eupho, Maximus, Progasm & Perdise) on and off for over a decade now. Though they can give me interesting sensations (rapid heartbeat, heavy breathing, spasms in my extremities, some sensual feelings and thoughts) I’ve never experienced some of the lovely testimonials that so many post here and on the Aneros site: Pleasure Waves, Mini-O’s, Dry, Wet, Super etc. I don’t know what these feel like, but it sure would be nice to at least get a little taste of what others are getting to experience. I really have tried so many different ideas that get bounced around out there: smoking weed (which I don’t like), fish oil, sleeping with it in, contractions, do nothing, breathing, watching porn, erotic hypnosis etc. None of which seem to do much…

Sadly, I can only describe the Aneros experience as just kind of bland. It ultimately starts off somewhat erotic with the initial insertion and then falls off. After an hour of having a piece of plastic stuck up my rear, I just get bored and clean up.

I know we’re not supposed to have “expectations”, but it’s hard when you read about other’s experiences that sound so fun! My only expectation at this point is that my session will just be bland and nothing out of the ordinary will happen. Honestly, I’m just not sure what I’m supposed to be feeling, what sensations to focus on and how to enhance them.

I don’t need some screaming hour long super orgasm- but some nice pleasure waves that show me I’m heading in the right direction would certainly be majorly helpful. I just can’t figure these things out and what they are ultimately designed to do!

After 10+ years, I wonder if my Aneros models are just not hitting my P-Spot at all or simply don’t give the stimulation necessary. Maybe some percentage of men simply are anorgasmic in their backdoors no matter what? I’d be willing to bet there are others out there who have the same experience as me. Maybe Aneros the company would like to survey/interview those who still can’t understand how these toys are supposed to work? They seem like a great company who genuinely believe in enhancing male sexual pleasure.

Cheers,

Don.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/9yxoro/suggestions_for_someone_whos_used_the_aneros_for/

30 comments

  2. Definitely not alone. Have you tried other forms of prostate stimulation like wand-style toys? The Njoy purewand is pretty amazing. Not the same as aneros but will at least give you some more control and ability to experiment.

  3. Check out the Revo line and the Sparta by Nexus. They’re both excellent toys. The Tomo by Giddii is pretty good as well. They’re all toys that move on their own. The Tomo has a particularly pronounced head on it too, and that might help you.

  4. Had a normal aneros for 5 yrs . All I can say is that orgasms with the aneros in are different and maybe a little more intese, I have never had a hands free experiance , always have to stroke off .

  5. Have you tried edging before any insertion? My thought is, get the prostate swelled up a bit before inserting the aneros. Take this with a grain of salt, I dont own a aneros, just other pspot toys . I can get great sensations and almost hands free o from the toys I have.

  6. I am exactly like you in every way. I keep chasing the dragon though. About 10+ years of using and not getting that much out of it. I’m also just about sure we are in a small percentage of men who just cannot orgasm from anal/prostate stimulation. It’s sounds so fucking awesome hearing these experiences and I wish for a fraction of them. Oh well.

  7. Read The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Forget about prostate play for a few weeks. Master the techniques in the book. Deep breathing, simple kegel exercises and practising the technique of multiple penile orgasms. If your PC muscle isn’t strong enough yet to hold in the cum, use the finger-lock technique the book suggests. This will help you separate the experiences of orgasm and ejaculation.

    I’d always read advice to abstain from ejaculating but I found it unhelpful as all it did was build up sexual frustration which put me in the wrong mindset for prostate play. After reading the book and practising the techniques, I started abstaining from cumming because I actually wanted to. The book taught me to have enhanced sexual pleasure without the emotional, mental and physical drain that follows ejaculation.

    Honestly – I had nothing but frustration until reading the book. It really helped me change the way my brain thinks about arousal and how it responds to sexual stimulation. I’m now hugely more in control of my penile orgasms during sex – the increase in stamina is unbelievable.

    But the best side effect by far is that it kick started my prostate. I began to notice pleasurable movements and sensations down there. With no toy inserted. The more I did kegels and breathing practise, the better it got. Suddenly my sessions with a toy inserted started to get interesting.

    As of now, I haven’t had any orgasms with an Aneros inserted. But I have had many mindblowingly intense full-body orgasms just from relaxing, breathing deeply, gently stroking my nipples and enjoying the feeling of involuntary movement in the prostate area. And that undoubtedly became possible after following the advice in that book.

  29. For me, I only started to feel orgasmic sensation building up when I watched porn and pics to get my mind excited first

  30. You are not alone.

    It seems that your Aneros models are hitting your spot. Nothing wrong with them. Rapid heartbreak, spasms etc means that you are already in Super-O territory. What you are facing is your own mental barrier.

    Please read this: (hope you’ll get some clue)

    [https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/149157-heart-rate-went-too-high-and-got-me-scared?p=149271#post149271](https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/149157-heart-rate-went-too-high-and-got-me-scared?p=149271#post149271)

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    Besides P-orgasms can be felt differently among different people. These feelings will evolve but your expectations can hinder them.

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