Introduction
I have often written about my experiences with self-imposed male chastity, specifically, wearing a “chastity cup” for masturbation/ejaculation control and a build-up of sexual energy. There is more involved here than just putting-on an athlete’s jockstrap and cup. It is a little complicated and I thought I should try to explain it. So here goes…..
The Split-Role
Usually, in “traditional” male chastity, the male is willing to be put into a “submissive” role by a more “dominant” female. He allows himself to be locked-into a cock cage and relinquishes the key to his “keyholder”. She then can tease and deny him according to her whim and will actually control when he is able to have a sexual release (orgasm/ejaculation). This entire process develops a different kind of relationship between the two. It is sexually frustrating yet at the same time sexually satisfying for the male.
Self-Imposed Male Chastity
When I use “chastity cups” in the same way, it is necessary for me to “split” the thought process—in essence, I must play-out both the ‘submissive’ (male) role as well as the ‘dominant’ (female) role. How is this accomplished? In essence, what is required is a “split personality” (if you will). Of course, I do not hold a “key”. So how does this work after all?
The Answer
What is going on here is (in my opinion) a sort of “divided highway”. Let me explain…..
There are two pathways or sides in this highway, the dominant side and the submissive side. The dominant side does not really care about the mechanics of the “chastity cup” or even semen retention, only that it is being used to control the male (me). The submissive side (me) experiences all the frustration and the pleasures of being in sexual denial—-no possibility of masturbation, certainly no possibility of ejaculation either. In order for this to work, the highway MUST remain divided. How long it is divided should be under the control of the dominant. But since that is ME, there is sometimes a little “hocus-pocus” involved in reconciling the two roles. Thus, it seems a little complicated, but in reality it is not.
In my case, I am usually in “chastity” at night but not during the day. So the dominant/submissive chastity “play” is cyclical. Whereas in a “real male chastity” situation, I would be wearing a locked cock cage for as long as my dominant partner wanted. I usually am thwarted by the “blue-balls” at some point during my SR run. Usually, this may be ignored by the dominant; she doesn’t purposely want to cause pain or discomfort to her chaste male, but she holds the cards. He may or may not get a sexual release to ease the ache. When I develop the “blue-balls” I need to rationalize (and negotiate) a sexual release with my dominant partner. This works and it keeps the highway divided.
Conclusion
The game of “self-imposed male chastity” is (IMO) a fun way to build sexual arousal and ties in perfectly with Aneros prostate stimulation. But in order for it to work, it is necessary (IMO) to take–on both dominant and submissive roles in this self-imposed variety of male chastity. I find it to be frustrating, rewarding and challenging. So hop-on to the highway, but be sure to stay in your lane! Touche’.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/self-imposed-male-chastity-a-divided-highway/