Made some real progress, but unsure if it’s the right kind?

So I got my helix syn a few months ago and while my first session was a decent success, my subsequent sessions were kind of dull. I didn’t feel my prostate at all, despite leaking precum and what not.

Until yesterday, when I followed this guide’s advice: https://www.extremerestraints.com/article/aneros-detailed-instruction to hold my sphincter’s contraction at half strength and to start playing with my body wherever I’m sensitive. This lead me to play with my nipples a bit while keeping my sphincter at half strength, at which point my prostate finally “activated”. I began to finally feel some tingling in my prostate and I started to actually feel my toy roll over my prostate during contraction.

Now the problem is that I only feel my prostate being stimulated as long as I’m rubbing my nipples. When I stop rubbing my nipples, I stop feeling anything in my prostate despite doing the exact same movements with my muscles as before.

I read on the official forums that it’s relatively common to get extra pleasure from your prostate when playing with your nipples (or any other sensitive area, except your penis), and I’ve also read of people rewiring their nipples to feel pleasure from the prostate without having any toy inside you.

What I’m afraid of though is that I might become too dependent on nipple play in order to feel *anything* in my prostate. Like I’m worrying that I won’t be able to “activate” my prostate unless my nipples are being played with. Should I abstain from playing with my nipples if I want to be able to find alternative ways to “activate” my prostate? Or will this maybe lead to my prostate being activated on its own over time?

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/a9u8f0/made_some_real_progress_but_unsure_if_its_the/

2 comments

  1. I would suggest you follow the path that leads you to greater prostate sensations. Over time you will experience greater awareness of how to build the pleasurable feelings. Over time you will learn other parts of your body and what sensations they can generate. Consider this only one chapter in your journey and enjoy it. 🙂

  2. I would keep going in the direction its leading you. This form of self pleasure is different from jacking off. Youbwont ever have a go to method. I’m two months in and still dont have one. I just listen to my body and ensure I follow those signals.

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