Hello. And happy new year 2019. I have been reading in the forum and the wiki for about a month now. I knew I wanted to buy and use an aneros massager, but I had decided I wouldn’t allow myself to get one without talking to my wife about it. She manages a retail store, and the silly season is not the time for serious conversations. So I finally had the opportunity in a car ride the end of last week, and ordered my Helix Syn that evening. I’m very excited, obviously. Since reading in the forum, I’ve been experimenting with non-penile stimulation and anal play, and I find it all very exhilarating and exciting. I have been an avid Kegel exerciser on and off for years. Nipple play has also been a part of my erotic life for some time now, so the Aneros fits in nicely with my sexual trajectory. My wife and I have struggled with our sex life for years – sometimes great, mostly not. Both of us bring our own issues. So I am hopeful for what prostate massage and Aneros might bring to that equation as well.