I mentioned in an earlier post that the impact of rewiring on me has been too much to contain in one post. So I will insert posts every now and then that illuminate the magic that has occurred in my mind and body that is rewiring. Here is one of those posts.
As I mentioned in an earlier post sex for me was a penis focused activity until Aneros. With this penis focused orientation comes the physical – gender based imperative to be proactive when I fucked. It goes to reason that men have cocks, an organ designed to penetrate and women have cunts an organ designed to receive a cock. That imperative calls on a man to be the assertive protagonist in sex; women get fucked, men do the fucking. It is thrusting and probing and grinding and digital massage of clits and a lot more.
As a man I was programmed by this imperative to penetrate my wife with my cock and thrust in her cunt creating pleasurable feelings in my cock until those feelings reached a crescendo that caused me to ejaculate. That was sex for me. For her it involved a lot of oral enhancement to her clit before penetration to warm her up for orgasm. Like many women she has a longer fuse than I do.
Then this thing called Aneros was introduced into my life. I discovered that the key to successful prostate pleasure with Aneros is the abandonment of my proactive imperative of hip thrusting and assertive penetration as a means to achieve orgasmic ecstasy. Instead Aneros asked me to adopt a more passive receptive role in the pursuit of orgasmic pleasure and MMO. It asked to slow my assertive male mind and forge a closer connection between my mind and my body. It asked me to engage my mind and still my penis to look for and perceive pleasurable feelings in my anal canal, cock root and nipples.
Aneros urged me to be mindful of the tiniest most subtle feelings of sexual pleasure as they emerged in my prostate and treat those emerging feelings of anal pleasure as delicate – perishable embers. Those embers are wispy and transient and subject to being extinguished if I force them. If I unleash my “male imperative” they will dim and fly away. In my rewired state orgasmic pleasure needs to be caressed carefully in my clumsy male mind; I need to be aware of the subtle sensations and changes in my body as orgasmic tension evolves and builds. I need to use my mind to enhance ever so delicate wisps of pleasure and tenderly expand them. This requires a level of finesse that took me a while to understand and master. I needed to first find the essence of pleasure in the cacophony of my body and then gently hold it in my mind and carefully blow on it to make it burst into orgasmic flame.
In this new state of mind I found myself fantasizing of having a handsome erect penis penetrating my “man pussy”. In the depth of MMO ecstasy my fantasies became lewd and lurid and were no longer limited to intimacy just with women.
After my first year of Aneros use I was rewired. Aneros became my “training wheels” following the above context and approach. I adopted a more passive – perceptive approach to anal orgasmic pleasure and traditional penis in vagina sex. I revealed my “feminine” side and became more body mind conscious. I became a sensual man.
My preferred position for having sex with my wife changed. Before rewiring I preferred to stand between her thighs with her crotch at the edge of the bed as I held her ankles and parted her legs opening her for my pentration. This offered me her vagina at cock height (we have a tall bed) and the exquisite view of my cock sinking deep into her cunt. I would penetrate her pussy thrusting my pelvis back and forth drawing my cock in and out of her pussy mouth occasionally bending over to suck one of her nipples or use one hand to massage her clit. Then rewiring shifted my mental state.
After rewiring my preferred positions involved me being the passive partner laying under her as she rides my cock cowgirl style. However we discovered a position that we often use now; it guarantees her intense orgasms and it allows me to sustain an erection almost indefinitely before I ejaculate.
I have an ergonomic office chair that has a backrest that leans back; it has removable arm rests. I take the arm rests off so it is only a seat and a back. I then sit on it and she straddles my hips facing me sitting on my lap, with her belly against mine impaling her vagina on my upturned spike. I lean back and she leans forward assuring that her clit is pushed down hard on the base of my cock.
We then lock hands and she presses her clit down on the top of the base of my cock. She does not slide my cock in and out of her cunt, instead she grinds her clit on the top of the base of my cock rubbing her pussy back and forth on the base of my shaft. I am immobile. In essence I am a human dildo who can suck her nipples and narrate filthy things for her. The more turned on she gets the more filthy things she wants to hear. The more she hears the more turned on she gets and so forth.
She can ride me for 40 minutes this way. It makes the pearlescent grool pour from her pussy which allows her to grind without getting sore. My cock reaches deep intio her vagina and when I eventually do ejaculate I pump a thick load all over her cervix; she claims the feeling that she gets of me ejaculating inside of her in this position is so much hotter than any other position we use. It also allows for her to stand and walk backwards to the bed to spread her legs and give me the show of watching my cum dribble from her reddened pussy mouth. Sometimes I partake of the creamy offering.
Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/rewiring-a-new-mindset-and-a-great-sex-position/