[This blog was inspired by @Pasttime and @BigGlansDC, thanks!]
Introduction
@Pasttime expressed an interest in male chastity and our wearing of “chastity cups”. I thought this would be a good time to express some of my opinions (as a sort-of refreshed “training session”). Here goes…..
Basics
This “chastity play” is always voluntary, and unlike other chastity “devices” where a keyholder allow access to orgasms, this activity is totally under our control. Whether and when we wear a “chastity” jock/cup is entirely up to us. How long we wear it is also up to us.
Selection Process
I have discovered over the years that there is a wide range of “fit” options when selecting a jockstrap/cup. Some are tighter, some are looser. Some cups are big, some are small. I would suggest buying a few different brands since all of them will “fit” differently. (In actuality, there are not a lot of cups on the market). Currently, my favorites are Mueller FlexShield and XO ProCup.
What Do the Cups Do?
{Normally, the jockstraps with hard cups are worn by men to protect the male genitals during contact sports like baseball. Using these cups for “chastity play” is an entirely different use for them. I will explain the secondary use in this blog.}
In essence, the cups prevent masturbation and ejaculation. IMO, they are most effective while worn at night to bed, since they take advantage of our regular NPT’s (Nocturnal Penile Tumescence erections) which every guy will experience. These are automatic erections which occur at night. You will probably have 3-5 or more each night. You cannot stop them from occurring. If you are wearing a cup when an erection occurs, sometimes you will be awakened and feel a nice, gentle “rubbing” of your frenulum against the inside of the cup. This can result in mind-blowing pleasure while the erection lasts, but no ejaculation (at least not for me)! Most of the time, a guy will just sleep-through these erections and perhaps wake-up with “morning wood”. But wearing a cup to bed at night increases the chance of being awakened by one.
How Do the Cups Work?
I regularly practice semen retention (SR) and the combination of SR with wearing a chastity cup at night increases the arousal every day and night. As I get closer to Day 7, my testosterone level increases and I can feel it. I want to ejaculate badly from that day on, but the cup is preventing me from masturbating and ejaculating during the night. The frustration level will start to build. Every day will get harder and during the day, I may experience some more random erections; my body’s way of telling me that it wants an ejaculation! If I wait too long, however, I may experience the dreaded “blue-balls” and that for me is usually a show-stopper!
When an ejaculation is imminent, I find that the combination of wearing a chastity cup combined with semen retention yields the most powerful and plentiful ejaculations.
The “Moaning Factor”
Sometimes, I am not wearing a jock/cup when I go to bed. I will wake-up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night with a very strong erection (an NPT). To prevent myself from “playing-around” with my package, I will select a strap/cup and put it on. And immediately, I will start to lightly moan! This is a good sign and a good feeling since I know that I am greatly aroused but can do nothing about it (the very essence of male chastity!)
Interaction with Aneros
As I have discussed many times before, wearing these “chastity cups” is a great asset to Aneros sessions since there is no chance of involving the penis in the prostate stimulation. Most of the jock leg straps will not interfere with P-tab movement. If they do, it is easy to spread them farther apart for access! IMHO, it makes for a better session when I am aroused and wearing the cups helps to boost the arousal.
Weekly Maintenance
I launder all my straps and wash my cups about weekly and that keeps them fresh and sanitary. A couple drops of bleach works well with soap.
Conclusion
Deciding to wear self-imposed “chastity cups” at night is my way of boosting my sexual arousal. It takes the right mindset to accomplish the goal but when things come-together, the results are quite stimulating! And wearing these cups in no way interferes with regular sexual activity with a spouse or partner. In fact, the regular practices of SR and “male chastity” will serve to boost the arousal so that when an ejaculation occurs, it will be memorable! Touche’.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/male-chastity-pointers/