[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax.
Well, it wasn’t too long before I felt compelled to moan, just a little bit. it was early morning (about 5:30 AM) and I didn’t want to wake up anyone else in the household. I tried to lie-still but the 950 began to work its magic. Before long, I was enveloped in p-waves and felt some “pumps” down in my groin. After this 20-minute session was over, I removed the Mueller “chastity cup” I was wearing and was glad to see a drop or two of precum. I am only in Day 2 of SR because I had a good ejaculation yesterday after an 8-day “run” (no blue-balls; I just thought it was the right time).
Men’s sexual arousals need not be “scheduled” regularly. Sometimes, just by withholding something sexual (such as an ejaculation through semen retention) or even a prostate-massage session (such as through Aneros) much more satisfaction can be realized. I am reminded, though, that when trying to conceive a baby, men are advised to have sex regularly (perhaps 3 or more times a week) but it should be based on pleasure and not on the need for conception. This is a somewhat different approach than infrequent Aneros sessions. Those massage sessions should always be pleasurable, IMO. But I have found (like this morning) that withholding the anticipated pleasure of a prostate-massage can make that session totally worthwhile and memorable! I just have to remember to keep my expectations low and hope for the best. Touche’.