Hey All,
Just came as a place to vent to like minded individuals.
I bought my aneros (MGX Trident) last fall on a whim after wanting to try one. Honestly, the reason I wanted to is because about a year prior I had had an experience with LSD that caused me to have multiple prostate orgasms without warning and without anything inserted (it was kind of crazy actually as I wasn’t expecting it and had never had a prostate orgasm before.)
I came on to this forum to see tricks and techniques. I have experience with meditation and have weed most of the time lol so I was like, sweet I got this. And within like 2-3 days I had a mindblowing time with it. It did take a lot of prep (definitely clean out your asshole) and time (specific positioning on my bed and slow breathing to deep relaxing) but holy shit. I don’t know what it is but stimulating my prostate makes my mind go bananas in the things it starts thinking about and imagining. So primal. And my body convulsing uncontrollably, legs shaking. To the point that I started to become afraid that I was actually breaking something in my brain lol. (I’m fine today, I think at least)
In my most intense session, I had the craziest prostate orgasm I’ve ever had. It just felt like I was cumming forever. It was like complete bliss. It was only after that I realized that at some point in the session my aneros had actually shot out of my ass lol and it wasn’t even in anymore and I was feeling it. That.was.amazing.
Flash forward to now. No luck. No nothing. Every time I put it in I get some waves and can start feeling pretty good. But nothing like that one time. And now it feels like I’m trying too hard or if I move even off just a little bit, it can ruin the whole experience and I can’t get it back. And given the work it takes for me to actually get prepared and then the time it takes to not get the satisfaction I’m looking for, I now look at my aneros with disdain lol. Almost like a mean ex who sits in my closet.
Anyway, that’s all. I’m wondering if I should try a new model or something bigger? But I’m not sure if that is what it is or not. Or even, something that vibrates? That almost seems like blasphemy to me at this point haha The amazing orgasms I had without any vibrations made me a true believer that I didn’t need that much stimulation down there. But it almost feels like I broke it. đ
Anyway, thanks for coming to this ted talk
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/i18h9p/sad_my_aneros_doesnt_love_me_anymore/
I’m no expert, but my best experiences so far have been without toys. I think maybe you took the next step, but haven’t mastered it yet, but also can’t go back a step at this point?
I’d try getting into your meditation a bit more and unpack what you are looking for, maybe your brain is trying to tell you there’s something you need to deal with, something that’s making you too goal oriented to really reach the proper state of mind?
I dunno, just some guesses.
My advice. Take some more lsd and enjoy.
This kinda happened to me for a month or two some time ago. I thought I had lost the ability. Iâm not sure what exactly fixed things for me but it might just be psychological. If you start a session all anxious about whether youâll be successful, chances are you wonât be. Maybe just try enjoying yourself no matter what happens. Another possibility is that you just need more patience, both in terms of time between sessions (I need a few days to a week at least personally) and not rushing during playtime. I remember being so eager to relive those moments of pure bliss that I would go too hard and fast and just lose the arousal somehow in frustration. Also sometimes I think we have horniness cycles that just come and go over weeks.
Everything the 2 above said and also I’m not sure if this is relevant(pretty sure it is after many tries), the super o require almost all your muscle groups working together in synchronicity, from your neck down to your chest, abs and finally pelvis muscles and upper legs. so the more intense your sessions are the more worn out all those muscles are and many of them may not contract properly when they re all tight and knotted, especially those more internal one like your lower abs and internal pelvis muscles (inside your anus, I have tried massaging them and they feels very very very very tense and painful). Apart from that I think the ability to relax and trust that it will work is important, be excited and actually feel those sexual arousal and excitement before u go into he session. Cultivate those mini sexual exciment through out the day if you can, and don’t rely too much on porn or strong emotional stimulation. How amazing a session depends on how well our body can produce those feel good hormone incl serotonin, endorphins, dopamine and oxytocin. So the ability to be able to arouse intensely is very important, the intensity of your orgasm depends on it, and often I notice I have the urge to feel the orgasm and mistaken it for arousal, and this usually lead to failing. The more sexually aroused you are the more u are able to surrender and not get distracted. your subconscious mind may also have some distracting thought like those frustration related or not related to your success of super o(sometimes we are not even aware of it), which can have huge impact on your session. Temperature also has an effect too I believe, it may not be cold for you to feel it but not warm enough for your muscle to contract fully, for me I notice in winter it is less intensive.