Hello,
So I (M25) bought an Aneros (Helix Trident) and received it yesterday. While I was waiting for its arrival, I checked a lot of the posts here on reddit to understand what it could do and how to “correctly” use it.
My first time was yesterday, and I think it was a decent first time. Got some satisfying “tingles” within my ass, feeling like pleasing sparkles, don’t really know how to describe it. Also got a lot of erections, as the new sensations of that unexplored territory were turning me on (+ i didn’t jerk off for like 10 days). Not much but I wasn’t expecting some major breakthroughs for session 1.
I tried again tonight. At first I was annoyed by the sporadic erections because they were distracting me. At some point I just decided to “accept” them and i could enter a better relaxation. At this time, tingles/sparkles appeared again. Then, I could feel a pleasing spot (in the ass) that I definitely know gave me sexual pleasure in the past and that i already tried to trigger before I knew all the prostate massagers’ benefits. As my penis was a bit “pumping” on its own, i let the feeling of the pleasing spot getting stronger and stronger and then … I came. Like a regular orgasm but with my feelings focused on the spot (i’m pretty sure it’s the prostate) and not the penis. Since I was not expecting that, I was like “wtf, this is it ?” and checked the towel underneath that was definitely wet.
So here I am, I had a regular orgasm with a prostate flavor, followed by a refractory period. It was for sure enjoyable but clearly not one of my best orgasms … It was hand free but somehow I managed to have hand free orgasms in the past, often by sitting w my legs crossed so the “no hands” aspect doesn’t really impress me.
Did that already happen to one of you ?
Cause now I’m in a weird mood, like … was it worth it ? About 1h to have about 50 min of almost nothing and then an orgasm that is leaving me disappointed cause I’m feeling on usual territory. I know there is still the goal of the “super O” or even some dry orgasms but idk, it sucked out my motivation.
Anyway, thanks for your opinions and if you have any advices, I’d take em 🙂
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/jjeoh8/disappointing_hfwo_during_second_session/
If you’ve been able to do this in the past, then you’re probably wired differently. Most people here go down a similar path that has been useful for me because I can kind of track my progress.
It sounds like you’re way ahead of the curve in terms of attitude and wiring, so just keep doing what feels good and let your body do the work.
Keep practicing and just rest and relax into the sensations. The prostate pleasure awakening takes time. I’ve also found that while face down feels great with the Aneros it also opens me up to inadvertent penile stimulation (especially if hard) which can distract from the prostate session or get me closer to just cumming the old fashioned way.