Hello everyone, I’ve lurked here for a while but after all the rave I’ve seen over these prostate massagers and the severe lack of physical contact I’ve had with others because of COVID. I kind of went all out though and got two tenga fleshlights in addition to the aneros Helix Trident and some lube. They all came in today, and as you can imagine, I’m very eager to test out the aneros and the tenga, especially since I’ve gone about 4 or so days without jacking off. Additionally, these are my very first sex toys, so I’ve been antsy all day to be able to give them a spin.
I was planning on popping in the aneros for about an hour, or whatever feels right to me, and just relaxing with it in while not doing anything with my penis. To finish off the session though, I really wanted to use my new fleshlight along with the aneros. Will this impede me in rewiring if I finish off my aneros sessions in this way? Is this something that’s okay to do, but only once in a while?
My goal is to eventual be able to reach a Super-O with just the aneros, and so I didn’t want to lengthen this process more than necessary. I understand from what I’ve read here and on the official aneros forum that the best results come when expectations aren’t present, which is why I wanted to use the helix for about an hour or however I can manage to take before I absolutely need to use the tenga. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you!!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/kw9cra/can_i_have_a_penile_orgasm_as_a_finish_to_my/
> Will this impede me in rewiring if I finish off my aneros sessions in this way? Is this something that’s okay to do, but only once in a while?
I think it depends on how receptive you are to the Aneros… but honestly I’ll just recommend that you have a good time and stop trying to fit yourself to some sort of plan you read about online. If you have a great time with your first Aneros session you may not need to worry about dick distractions. If you don’t feel anything at all then maybe try to focus more on the Aneros stuff. Either way though, just enjoy the ride. FWIW I’ll usually finish with a traditional orgasm because it’s the only way I can get my prostate to calm the F down.
> best results come when expectations aren’t present
Yeahhh but your first time will have expectations (you bought it for a reason, right?) which is fine. I think it takes at least a few sessions to really embrace that sentiment. I’d argue a better line would be that you will have better results when you learn to enjoy what’s going on rather than trying to get somewhere.
> which is why I wanted to use the Helix for about an hour or however I can manage to take before I absolutely need to use the tenga
If I were you, I’d recommend setting aside way more time for the Aneros (maybe ~3hrs unless you don’t take to it well), and using the tenga in another session. For me, dick-stuff is super lack-luster after a session. I can finish quickly, but the path there always feels forced. If you want to appreciate a new toy, post-aneros may not be the best.