I bought an Aneros Helix Syn Trident about 7 months ago and I must say it is not doing it for me. I respect it and what it has taught me about my prostate but I think all the involuntary shaking is just painful and frustrating. While it has felt good, I have gotten nothing close to the pleasure that everyone talks about on here. It’s as if the strain on my body being so tense and spazzing around is significantly worse than the amount of pleasure I get from the toy. I also get weird bouts of anger while using the toy kind of like a super orgasm but of overwhelming anger, it just pisses me off for no reason lol.
Anyone else experience anything similar? Any advice? I am one more session away from throwing this thing in the trash. Also sorry to anyone who praises the toy I mean no disrespect and I do believe in the positive attributes of it but I’m starting to think that it may just not work for some people.
Side Note: I am no stranger to psychedelics/smoke weed daily and have never experienced any aggression or anger in the slightest. I barely even get angry in my daily life so I am not sure why the Aneros does this to me.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ldk87b/ready_to_give_up_on_the_toy_advice_needed/
That’s really odd. Although if you consider that emotions are actually triggers in our brain from chemicals and not something we can voluntarily control, it’s not as odd. For some reason, your body is producing the chemicals triggering this event. It is probably due to muscle tension.
https://www.mentalhelp.net/anger/physiology/
That being said, I’ve had some success with a Hiatchi wand at the base while inserted with a dimmer switch to control the vibrations. Instead of clenching, I have to relax and let the wand do the work. Perhaps you could try that?
I haven’t given up on the toy just let go of expectations. I don’t have time to commit to long sessions frequently any more. I’ve reframed completely, I’ll use my Helix and just enjoy the sensations. Some times a get closer to other days it’s just mildly pleasant. I know when I have the chance, it’ll be relaxing, pleasant, and at the end I’ll finish with an enhanced T orgasm if I don’t stumble into something.
I know it’s “work” to learn and retrain, but if the whole thing isn’t fun or bring joy why bother?
I’ve practiced with my Helix for ~4 years.
It sounds familiar. It sounds like the feelings are getting too intense too quickly. This may be due to chasing the orgasm. The prostate can get up to speed really quickly but that does not mean the rest of your body/mind are in the same place. When you start feeling pressure/stress/pleasure take it back down a notch and relax, let the feelings build back up slowly, then repeat, keep taking it down and let the feelings slowly build back up. Don’t worry about losing the moment, if you are relaxed the feelings will come back very soon. It sounds counterintuitive but this transformed my whole journey after 10 months of moderate results. I am now having consistent dry orgasms.
Try some different models,I would try the PS NEW sold on the HIH website It is sold as the classic on Aneros but not sure it is always available.DON’T throw it away just forget it for awhile and when you try it don’t have any [expectations.At](https://expectations.At) worst it is a healthy thing to do,I never get up to pee during the night anymore that is not common for a 71 yr old.