Hi,
i love the use of aneros and i’m evaluating to buy one (my old is lost).
But my question is:
– if we like the prostatic stimulation, this can be considered to be bisex or gay?
Actually i never used it during sex with my wife, but i admit that i want to ask her to stimulate me or start some game.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/luiz48/we_are_gay_bisex_straight/
Gay means that you like men.
Gay means you’re attracted to men. You have a prostate, it’s a pleasure point, and is in no way a reflection of your sexuality.
Prostate play is purely about pleasure, any attempt to label it as gay or straight is ridiculous and counter productive. Every man can and should learn to experience prostate orgasm, it is one of life’s most incredible pleasures and any attempt to discourage every man from experiencing it because of some arcane attempt to categorize it as a gay or straight thing is ludicrous!
I’m straight and happily married to my wife. A woman. I play with my prostate and they’re some of the most intense, mind blowing orgasms I’ve ever had. All it is, is just another form of masterbation. Has nothing to do if you’re gay or not.
Liking prostate stimulation means liking prostate stimulation, not more not less. Sexuality can and should not limit what parts of your body you are allowed to touch, it’s your body and none should judge you, including yourself.
correlation does not imply causation!
She’s your wife… talk to her about everything. my wife thinks my ass is totally fuckable. and gets hella wet by playing with it
no no no….. if you identify as gay.. then you are gay. just because you like your backside played with means nothing. .. well except you like your backside played with. I enjoy p spot play and one day i might get to try some pegging. I have no desire to be with another man. or do i identify as gay. or bi.
Gay people suck each others dicks, does that mean you’re gay because you like it when a woman sucks you off?
Lesbians eat pussy, does that make your wife a lesbian because she likes it when you eat her out?
does it even matter? this world is full of labels that doesn’t help us in anyway. we are all born perfect in the grey zone, and the world has slowly shift to the polarity of black and white and causing so much seperation. Love yourself and you will lose the shackles these labels does to you.
Your sexuality is not defined by what part of your body you enjoy having stimulated.
It’s defined by who you enjoy having the stimulation done by.
So in that regard, aneros users are autosexual, except when we involve a partner, then we’re whatever.
Don’t get hung up on it.