Another glorious session twice in one week. Here are some tips

5 days ago I had my first prostate orgasms in a long time. Had a session 2 days after that was just okay and short lived. My session last night though was amazing. It was really late at night, I just had smoked some weed and was already pretty tired. I got the urge and some mild tingles. Within seconds upon insertion, I am breathing very heavy and within a minute I let out some moans. Random ripples of pleasure run through my pelvis, and occasionally would get that lower abdomen/chest butterflies and feelings of warmth.

It tends to come in waves of about 15 minutes. It will be almost overwhelming for 15-20 minutes, then it slows down for 5-10 minutes. I usually hit 3-4 distinct peaks throughout a 1 hour session. After an hour or so, things tend to taper down and that is when take the aneros out and stop.

I recommend not jerking off/ having a super t at the end of your session until you are “rewired” but now that I have developed the control and connection, I can ejaculate at the end of a session. Went about 5-10 minutes before blasting off and it knocked me out.

I wake up this and I have the craziest morning wood, unbelievably horny, and my prostate is radiating a mild feeling of pleasure. Similar to how you feel after getting a good massage, but in the prostate/perineum/pelvis area. It just feels good down there for a lack of better term.

Its all about proprioception. You know how you are aware that you can feel your arms and legs in space? That is called proprioception and we have good fine tuning in frequently used muscles. For example, if you think about your biceps you will “feel them”. If you think about your fingers, you can feel each individual finger. You can develop this fine control in the prostate/pelvic floor muscles over time. Its not a natural movement per se so it has to be developed. Similar to learning how to ride a bike or doing a backflip, the feelings and movements usually dont come natural and the fine motor control happens over time. Over time your brain creates this pathway and fires more efficiently.

Initially the sensations in the prostate are very subtle and so most people will over look them. Not to mention as men we have a strong biological instinct to ejaculate and this is reinforced by modern society. Add in the taboo of prostate play and it makes sense why its hard to achieve.

Another thing that helps is not seeking orgasms, but seeking pleasure. I would rather have an hour of intense pleasure and not “orgasm” then to have just a few minutes of pleasure and an orgasm (most of the time) It really changed my perspective and I understood what women meant when they don’t have to orgasm per se to enjoy sex. I had a hookup about a year ago and the pleasure I from the blowjob despite not cumming was way more then the PIV sex.

Prostate play might not give those post-nut chemical cocktail feelings of “completion” but the peaks of the pleasure are definitely more intense despite it not really “ending”.