Straight bros using Aneros – experience & tips ?

Hi,

I have been exploring with the Aneros MGM for almost a month now. I’ve had approx 4 sessions, never got to the super O but definitely improved relaxation, middle/lower muscle contraction and now I get to have pretty good hands free orgasm.

One thing that is still difficult for me is keeping focus / arousal thougths. I can watch porn and get super hard, then when I put the Aneros, I go soft – I usually like to have sexual thoughts related to the feeling I’m getting but here, its a bit tricky lol. I’m mostly straight (a bit curious/bi with experiences in the past but never anal). So far I’ve gotten aroused thinking of m4mw thoughts but get confused/overwhelmed with other thoughts forcing theur way in my head…

Question for straight guy:
1) what is your trick to get horny while having Aneros in your butt ?
2) any tips on how to maximize pleasure ? (Do you do it when wife/girlfriend is home ?) – I smoke weed before and it helps, but I get sooo in my head and start overthinking. I know prostate play is physical and has nothing to do with sexual orientation…but would like to hear a straight’s opinion on this.
3) how did you get to relax mode ? I’m trying Mindgasm, but everytime, I start focusing to much on technique and movement as if I’m in a yoga class or something lol 😅
4) how the hell can people keep both pc muscle and anal muscle contracted for more than 30 sec ? When I do, after 30 sec, I’m no longer sure if both are contracted at all or contracted as strong… and when I force my self to keep them contracted, my body starts shivering (not in a good way, lol it shivers just like when you go for a 2 min planking exercise – like my body wants it to stop) – also not sure what is 20%, 50% , 100% – I mean, should I go strong until it really hurt to consider a 100% level contraction ?

Lol although, i’m having pleasure, keeping an open mind and will keep looking for that super O – that whole Aneros thing is pretty complex… not sure if being straight makes it more difficult…

Any thoughts or non-judgemental opinion ?

Cheers guys !

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/mlbtln/straight_bros_using_aneros_experience_tips/

7 comments

  1. I find arousal is more mental than physical, an erection is not strictly necessary to the correct mental state. I find concentrating on what muscle does what distracting as well, if you are relaxed and aroused your body will find it’s own way, just be open to new sensations, without any preconceived notions of what to expect and you will get there.

  2. 1) First off, you should be horny BEFORE you put the Aneros in. Prostate play is not like jerking off where you can throw on a porn, just start jerking and then you’ll eventually get hard and cum. Your body has to want it. You need to feel like you need an Aneros session prior to actually having one.

    Also, I’ve found porn to be a distraction. I’d argue a successful Aneros session has much more to do with mental arousal than physical. If your mind is horny, your body will follow. Work on mindfulness exercises to help increase your awareness and boost your arousal levels naturally. If you rely on porn, you’ll have to use it during a session and it willl end up distracting you from the subtle pleasures.

    2) Again mindfulness meditation will help here. It helps you slow your mind down and be in the moment.

    3) Edibles, deep breathing and meditation

    4) I’ve always used the “do-nothing” method. Just relax and let your body/the Aneros do it’s thing. If you start worrying about contractions, you get distracted by “am I clenching too hard or not enough?” And you keep trying to adjust and compensate and things don’t go anywhere.

    Overall, think of an Aneros session as a bio-feedback system. You have to build arousal naturally and then allow the arousal to circulate around your body and build on itself. If you try too hard in any one area, you’ll disengage the feedback system and won’t see any results.

    Also, I feel it needs to be said: prostate play is not inherently gay. The sexual preference of the person using an Aneros device has no effect on the quality of the session itself. If you have some sort of Hang-up about liking anal play because it “might make you gay”, you need to take a step back and re-evaluate things. I am 100% straight, not aroused by men in the slightest and engaged to a wonderful woman, but I absolutely crave prostate orgasms.

  3. When you say you’ve had a hands free O, do you mean dry or wet? If dry, then you’ve made serious progress in a very short period of time.

    I edge first before I put the toy in and that makes everything primed and ready. Abstaining for a few days can help a lot too.

    I like to watch porn, but there is a lot to be said for focussing on the feelings. I find when the good feelings start, it can be good to just close your eyes and focus on the feelings, the sound can fuel your arousal and you can open your eyes when you want to have a glance.

    If you’re finding you’re focussing too much on technique then try resisting tensing up. Your body should natural try to tense, then you resist and this builds tension.

  5. I use porn, but not to look at just to listen. So I go for clips of wife’s telling their husband’s about their fantasies, or how they cheated etc.

    As for the muscles, I find it a lot better to just make movements as if I’m fucking. And try that in different positions.

  6. I meant wet orgasm – i.e. I came.

    Last night, tried edging before then put aneros when I was hard. It felt way better and I was more aroused than past sessions. I also tried not to focus too much on muscle contraction and strenght.

    I think I had a glimpse of what involuntary contraction are (usual shivering, but this time it was easier to control and felt my anal hole opening up and closing by itself). However, i didnt experience uncontrollable pelvic contraction like you would see online or hear people describe.

    I dont think I got a Pgasm – as I was getting more and more aroused by the shaking and contraction, I kept going thinking that maybe it would a dry orgasm… it was not, I blasted a huge load all over my chest – I still felt arousal for about 20 sec after cuming, then it stopped. Funny story, when I went to pee after session, I did a few contraction and would get pleasure at each release of pee lol

    I dont know if what I’m doing is right and if I should just trust the process and be patient. I saw a video of a guy having what seems to be involuntary contraction / super-O and I’m wondering if this is really what it is like and whether this is achevable by anyone. Here is the link: https://mobile.twitter.com/lopaz_mr/status/1374667724614369283

    Thanks for the input guys ! Much appreciated

  7. To get horny, I usually watch a bit of porn then stick it in. Throughout the session I have usually lesbian audio (two woman moaning in pleasure is nice) playing and also think arousing thoughts

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    To maximize pleasure, just keep going. Have your sessions and it’ll slowly get better each time

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