Hey everyone, I’ve recently started on my journey with the prostate. I’ve been reading a lot on here and the mindgasm forum. There’s one thing that I just can’t wrap my mind around, and that’s how things change after the rewiring process. After reading some people’s experiences it seems kinda scary that this could change you that much. Was just wanting to see if those who have successfully rewired would share how things have changed for themselves? Is sex still enjoyable? Do you still enjoy masturbating? Are there things that you don’t like about it? Please Write whatever you’ve experienced, just a very curious beginner here. Thanks guys.
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Sex is not only still enjoyable, it’s more enjoyable than ever. Since you become more attuned to your body, sex automatically becomes super-charged and you have (atleast i do) more control over ejaculation. Sex becomes something more intimate, your goal isn’t to cum anymore but to enjoy the intimacy and most importantly to make love.
The same goes for masturbation.
I believe people give certain words or concepts way too much credit. You change on a daily basis, this is not scary, that’s life. “Rewiring” is something you literally do every day, but without ever questioning anything. I’d rather call it “unlocking” rather then “rewire” because the latter would explain your concerns, you don’t overwrite something, you just activate neural connections that were previously not “connected”. Meaning stimulation of your prostate gives you sexual pleasure, whereas before it just feels “weird”. You can compare it with learning to ride a bike, new neural pathways are created, there is nothing bad about that either right?
To some degree i have to say a tiny word of warning tho. For some people unlocking prostate pleasure can be quite a revelation, a mystical experience that is so intense that you start questioning certain beliefs of yours. That bleeds in with their regular life, i myself had a rather unpleasant experience but it’s honestly not a big deal and i would not change it in any way.
Sex and masturbation are soooo much better. Like penis gets super rock hard and because I have a whole other way to stimulTe myself the orgasms are really out of this world.
Sex became more enjoyable. I’ve done some butt play for years, but only recently after I started to focus on the prostate stimulation part of it (and to do it slow, relax, stop trying to get to orgasm fast), it got so much better.
More specifically, I learned to enjoy stimulation of any part of my body, and to enjoy the sensations in my dick more controllably.
I used to have essentially one erogenous zone – my dick and a little around it. And to some degree – anal region. And I never really enjoyed kissing with someone (I mean I enjoyed doing it for emotional aspects and such, but it was just so-so in regards to the physical sensations). Now, for the two-three days after a prostate play session my whole skin is one huge erogenous zone. My wife touching me anywhere brings so many powerful sensations. And with kissing I finally (after of more than two decades of kissing with my partners) unlocked and started to enjoy the physical sensations of it as well.
And with the dick sensitivity I have better level of control now. Essentially it’s like I am able to shift the focus of the sensitivity off the dick if I want to, or bring it back at will. It both allows to last longer during PIV, and to finish earlier together with my wife, which is a huge deal for me as she climaxes much faster.