So I’ve had the most success by far using the do nothing method while laying face down on my belly. Usually laying in this position with the toy inside me will put a slight pressure on my dick, making it get hard (I make sure to point it down between my legs). This pressure kickstarts slight pleasurable sensations on my penis, which in turn trigger pleasure waves and multiple dry o’s radiating from my prostate.
I’ll admit the sensations in my prostate are definitely mixed with some penile pleasure (let’s call it 80/20 or 70/30), but these orgasms have never resulted in ejaculation, they’ve always been dry. Since I know some people swear by the rule of not stimulating your dick in any way during the rewiring process, I’m wondering if I should maybe focus on other positions or whether I can expect to make good progress in my journey to super O’s despite the penile sensations.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ozktqa/will_this_position_hinder_my_progress/
Lying in your front side, or stomach, is perfectly fine if that works for you. The big thing is to avoid **DIRECT** stimulation of the penis (jerking with your hand, pressing it into the bed, etc). So long as you are not grinding your dick into the bed you should be good. Tucking it down between your legs definitely helps so good job on that.
Indirect sensations happen and they’re perfectly fine (IE: dick touching your inner thigh if laying ion your back)
If you’re on the edge enough then even the slightest touch around frenulum can get you over. For greatest success you should be aroused as much as possible so this would end it. But until that point anything goes if you can resist it but direct stimulation, intentional or not, is more in the ruined orgasm territory. If you have to ask, then you’d probably better avoid it.
I’m not as puritan as some here. I think we long as you’re not pulling yourself off then some pressure/touch on your permits is fine and can actually help heighten your arousal. Personally I like to lie on my back and let my hands run over my erogenous zones (inner thigh, nipples, scrotum, penis). This heighten my arousal and let’s me get more out of prostate play.
A lot of people like to act as if there’s one prescribed way to use an aneros but I think this is nonsense. It’s your toy and you can enjoy it how you want to.
Something that works for me is clenching calf and thigh muscles.If I rasie my right knee straight up and left half way clench and hold right thigh I feel like im melting right into the bed.
Press penis is not good. It makes you easier to ejaculate.