For those of you who have fully rewired or can at least have consistent prostate o’s, did you manage to get there by completely avoiding ejaculating after a session? I think the reason I haven’t progressed much lately is that I tend to jerk off after taking the out the toy (whether it be a dud or a good session), so perhaps ejaculating kind of cuts short the rewiring process. Any thoughts?
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I don’t like commenting on specific milestones but in general I often end a session with a traditional o (but still with the assistance of the inserted toy) and I have still been able to make plenty of progress. Try leaving it in at the end if you do so.
It took me several months of practice to reach my first Super O. In that period I never touched my penis and never finished myself after a session. I can’t reach a Super O every time, I always get dry O’s every session and will sometimes finish myself with the toy still inserted. I also sometimes use it inserted for normal sex with my wife.
Generally speaking, it’s best to refrain from ejaculating immediately after a session until you are fully rewired. Once you are fully rewired, then do whatever works best for you personally.
After 3 years I’m now able to have consistent prostate orgasms and some super Os. I always finished off with a traditional wet orgasm after a session. I honestly believe now that had I held off from a traditional penile orgasm at the end of my sessions I might have had quicker success. But regardless it was a good ride & learning experience. Happy now to be multiorgasmic at 54 years old. 🙂
Purely speaking from my own experience, I would recommend keeping the two (ejaculation and prostate pleasure) separate if you are trying to achieve dry-Os/Super-Os.
It took me years to learn how to have (dry) prostate orgasms with the Aneros. After nearly seven years of using the Aneros on and off, I had pretty much concluded that I was one of those guys who simply couldn’t orgasm this way. But after reading a post somewhere on the Aneros forum, I decided to try one last thing: the “abstinence” method. To hold off from penis pleasure for a period of time, and focus on just my prostate. I knew this would require self-discipline, as the kind of time period talked about was more than a few days! For two weeks, I forgot about my dick altogether and had an Aneros session every few days. My sessions began to feel really good—without the release of ejaculation I had a lot of built up horniness and my prostate was much more sensitive. I got to a month, with a few wet dreams along the way (but no actual penis stimulation) and then it happened. I was incredibly horny and my prostate felt like it needed attention. I had my first prostate orgasm.
It was easy to get back to that point again.
So, I conclude that my “rewiring” was significantly accelerated by forgetting about penis pleasure and focusing just on the Aneros.
I find i can get too frustrated if dont have regular ejaculation. (I have been using awhile and can start aless sessions with a few contraction and thinking about it, so not sure if that counts as being rewired)
Towards the early days tho I tried to obstain.
It’s better if you can avoid ejaculating, but don’t feel bad about yourself if you need to.
No,you should not.
I have found that semen retention for a period of 10 to 14 days works for me. My aless sessions are stronger then penile and Aneros. Life is good at 61.