So for about three weeks now, I haven’t used my aneros too much, since I’ve been trying to keep my prostate relaxed, but I feel all of my sessions so far have only been mildly pleasurable. The last one got a bit close to a big orgasm, but kind of fizzled out. I would love to go through a super O again, but it kind of gets there, but not much. If anyone had the same experience, do I maybe have more rewiring? I might be chasing it too hard, but I normally just try to tell myself to just expect anything
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I’m the same, haven’t gotten a good orgasm in a week. I think it’s because I might’ve tried to use the aneros too often that I desensitised the prostate, I think using it sometimes or when u feel good is the best way to keep going forward.
Ultimately, in my experience, it takes time to build up and there’s no way around it. That’s why I like it without toys, it makes me more relaxed and more aware of the potential and maybe even more able to recover back. I encourage everyone to explore on their own, I did more than my fair share to discover that there are basically no shortcuts, only setbacks. Lesser experiences can still be enjoyable, but you can’t compare it to the more intense ones, only take them for what they are or as a sign to wait some more.
Read nothing about nipple play… sensitize your nipples and that “key” will unlock the wonders of Nirvana almost every time… it your not doing that, your missing a key element… cheers