I post this in equal parts to pay it forward, hoping that my account might help someone else who’s still trying to figure this stuff out as I’ve been helped by so many posts here, and to assure myself that it actually happened.
I started my adventure in August this year with the purchase of Helix Syn. I was a complete newbie with no prior experience but for a few years I’d had the itch to try Aneros. Eventually I had to pull the trigger on it because it became apparent that it wasn’t something that would go away if I ignored it.
My first session wasn’t anything to speak of. I did feel something but I wasn’t sure what and if I hadn’t imagined it. To put it short, I was flying blind. Frustration began to mount and on a whim I ordered the Progasm. I was looking for anything that would give me direction. And boy, did it ever.
Its prodigious size was astoundingly helpful. Whereas with the Helix I was fumbling around, unsure what I should be doing, with the Progasm it was basically impossible to “miss”. Any muscle contraction would result in my prostate getting worked which pointed me to the exact sensations I should look for and showed me what movements were required.
It also gave me one of my two wet orgasms. I was daydreaming and almost completely forgot I had a toy in me when suddenly I was yanked out of the trance by a strong suspicion, bordering on certainty, that shit was about to go down. I felt my prostate swell and it felt as though the toy was pistoning me at a frightening pace, which was obviously impossible but nevertheless felt real. What happened after that felt like a slightly muted penile orgasm but lasted considerably longer than usual as the semen was being pumped out of me. Sadly, I didn’t get to enjoy the afterglow because being led to believe wet orgasms to be a rarity with prostate massagers I took no precautions and made one hell of a mess.
The other HFWO, curiously enough, happened when I was sans any toy or even any external stimuli. I was simply listening to hands-free audio at my desk while doing kegels. Another mess to clean up.
Over the following weeks I continued to use the Progasm exclusively but started noticing that there was almost a hard time limit for my sessions. About an hour or so until I would pretty much stop feeling anything. I wasn’t exactly complaining because that hour would usually feel pretty good but I couldn’t understand why the sensations would fade so abruptly.
I came across a post by a fellow whose name I sadly can’t remember right now, who likened the prostate to a sponge and described that the goal was to tease it just enough to make it take in more fluid but not so hard that it would secrete more than it took in. I began suspecting that the Progasm may have actually been to blame there.
To be more specific, when pleasure from my prostate reached a certain magnitude the muscles in my abdominal region would (and there’s no other way to describe it) “go hard in the paint.” They would violently contract and stay that way for a few seconds before relenting for less than a second and going at it agian. Almost as if trying to push the toy through my belly button. My guess was that due to its size the Progasm was squeezing my prostate too hard in those moments, causing it to secrete too much fluid.
Whether I was right on the money or completely off base, it prompted me to try something else. During yesterday’s session, as I felt the “Progasm deadline” nearing I took the toy out and gave myself about 30 minutes of respite before inserting the Helix in and lying back down. It turned out better than I could have expected.
Very soon after I found a comfortable position to lie in the pleasure started and would only fade for very short periods before returning. I couldn’t tell how long it took but at one moment I became acutely aware of my prostate and in my mind’s eye I saw a picture of a white-hot orb radiating blinding light. I could precisely feel the Helix repeatedly and relentlessly hit the prostate and the pleasure which surged as a result was so overwhelming it almost hurt. All I could do was writhe uncontrollably on my bed with the biggest shit-eating grin you’ve ever seen, repeatedly whispering “oh yeah” under my breath.
I don’t know whether you’d classify it as a prostate orgasm, super-O or whatever else have you and quite frankly I couldn’t care less. It was the most intense pleasure I’ve ever experienced and I can’t wait to taste it again.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/qa753l/i_finally_struck_gold/
That seeing white light and radiating heat is described by a ton of people who have reached their super O. I felt that too once or twice before my super O and then on the day it happened. You can read about my experience which was very recent in my profile. I’ve since had my second super O.
My advice would be when you see that light and feel that warming radiation, imagine it growing in your body. If you feel it in your prostate, imagine it moving to your abdomen, a ton of people say they feel a warm in their belly on Super O as well. I felt pressure in my head, not a headache, just pressure and I focused on that and told my brain it was all just pleasure that was radiating and spreading.
I’m of the impression that the prostate is the key but the whole body feeling; nipples, abdomen, shaking legs, head is what leads to super Os. It’s a whole body orgasm but the prostate is just the nuclear blast zone if you will as the pleasure radiates throughout your body.
Good luck! Don’t force it, just have fun and it will come but you are probably close. Unfortunately “close” can mean months away on this journey but just focus on the pleasurable feelings and enjoy them for what they are.
The bit about the prostate being a sponge is key… no need to force hard contractions… I try and release them as they start… and hold at 10-20%… gentle is the way to go….
If you are holding a strong contraction… the toy can no longer move…
I’m going to validate your Progasm experience here. I’m an advanced user. Not an expert but advanced. I am re wired. I have super O’s and I’ve owned every non-syn model they make. The Progasm for me has a time limit as well. But it always delivers. As someone who has been battling not having HFWO, the Progasm is tough for me because it gives wet orgasms 50% of the time for me. I use the Progasm in 2 ways. One way is as a finisher. If another toy isn’t quite doing it, I know the Progasm will. Quickly. Secondly I use it as a quick thrill in itself. Maybe I’m horny and my prostate is aching but i don’t want to deal with the slow build up of other toys. I’ll put the Progasm in. Get a few orgasms and call it a day.
Congratulations on your first Super-O man!
Try imagining that white light spreading into your belly, and then sending threads of white light up your spine to your brain, where they pool and form a golden moon above the crown of your head.