Stuck at involuntary contractions, not progressing further.

New to prostate play and mindgasm. I started off with lesson 1 – involuntaries were actually difficult. Then after a break, I inserted a Leluv Nero knockoff toy and tried again. This time, the toy helped to physically differentiate the feelings of flexing base and centre though there wasn’t as much of prostate stimulation from the toy as I had hoped.

Lesson 2 was much better and I could immediately feel the involuntary contractions hit my penis and sphincter and the pelvic areas.. it was a pleasure to see my penis throbbing and jerking around (though mildly) on its own. Moaning to the contractions and actually wanting the contractions helped to increase the intensity. There was some minor trembling of the thigh and hands also.

I can’t say that the contractions were orgasmic – they were a great sensation but it did not result in any orgasm kind of feeling. I don’t think these were p-waves either.

As the stronger involuntaries were building up, my penis would become really erect, but then it would return to flacid (infact almost completely withdraw) a minute later. There was very little precum leaking and almost no semen.

Lesson three did nothing for me. During the wave, i found it difficult to relax the base first and then the centre – i could do the other way round more easily. Also when we moved faster during the pulse, this didn’t matter. While i could definitely keep up to the pace and flex and relax, there was no pleasure sensations or even involuntaries.

However the last part of lesson three – flexing the base and do a light contraction of the centre – that triggered some strong involuntaries immediately which went on for a good half a minute.. I was subconsciously flexing the base the entire time while the centre and base wre throbbing on their own. There was slight heat build up during one of the sessions. While this was a new sensation and very much welcome. I don’t know what’s next. I have done these lessons about 3-4 times now in quick succession.

Am I doing something wrong? Is there more to come? Maybe I am not in the “mental zone” yet? Or do I simply need more patience and practice? I have been reading the prostateplay and mindgasm forums and jealous of people who experience HFWO / HFO / Super-O / P-waves.

I have also heard so much about milking / squirting / leaking but I experienced almost nothing. I am someone who generally generates lots of precum when really horny (to the extent of experiencing blueballsof I don’t finish). However it’s a fact that I wasn’t that horny when I started this. So finally at the end of the last session, when I tried massaging with an NJoy pure wand knockoff, i could finally see a few drops of cum leaking out from my flaccid penis, but that was it.

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Any help, advice and insights would be greatly appreciated