Hi guys! I’ve been on a stroking ban for a week now and have been trying to achieve some kind of prostate or anal orgasm. I had been hoping that my level of (constant) horniness and patience would get me there, but I feel kind of lost. Whether I try the Aneros Helix Syn for an hour (just laying on my belly, relaxing, sometimes doing kegels), a prostate vibrator, the Lovense Hush or my Fuck machine, the most I can do is use a dildo to extract a few drops without any orgasmic feeling.
Does anyone have maybe a video to recommend? Am I going about this all wrong? I’ve been investing lots of time and getting my mind clear, but maybe I’m just expecting too much? Very curious to see what people think here!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/th1iis/trying_to_have_a_wet_prostate_orgasm/
Hello,
Definitely abstinence and horniness will help. So your on the right track there,
I have Had a HFWO from Aneros both Helix and Progasm, I did this through relaxing and letting my body involuntary shake and quiver,
However,
I learnt to do this through other toys like the purewand and dildos, I think you will have to experiment and see what works.
Initial I found relaxing and manually massaging the right spot a little bit of poppers to completely relax then let your body to the work.
I find that everyone is on a different journey, i has taken me a few years to find pleasure in my prostate as it was quite numb to pleasure before.
Will be good to know how you get on?
I can get consistent wet orgasms however I use poppers to achieve this and I watch porn.
I watch trans porn and/or rimjob porn to get me turned on fully.
I insert my aneros, lay on my back and let the poppers get me super horny and into the porn I’m watching.
Does your fuck machine allow you to switch out dildos?
For me it was a combination of abstinence, finding the right dildo that hit my spots, my machine, and patience and learning how to just enjoy the moment and not focus on the end goal (wet prostate orgasm).
Then once it was hitting my spot I just let the machine go and I just held onto the headboard and enjoyed the amazing feelings washing over me.
(This isn’t a solution for everyone): but I found using a chastity device really helped me to dial in on my P spot and really explore back there and find what works for me. And just enjoy the feelings back there without getting my penis involved.
Prior to using a chastity device I would Just get impatient and get myself off from penis stimulation while stimulating my prostate.
I hate being the one to suggest this, but try weed or edibles. I’ve been using aneros for over 5 years sober without much success, not even one orgasm. I tried it with an edible two nights ago and that’s when I had non stop rolling orgasms for most of the night.
The experience is exactly how other posters describe that I’ve read about.