I asked a possibly similar question, but I’ll try to find out again, I have been practicing and “trying” for many years, I have tried different sizes and different toys, I have fortunately or unfortunately already experienced a “prostate orgasm” several times but I forgot how I this was done by “this problem with my memory” fortunately and regretfully, I found out that this is possible but I don’t remember exactly what I did, but after this happened I wrote two “notes” in one indicated
: (1) tighten the penis and the anus will contract on its own, and at the same time tighten the muscles of the legs. second note:
2. clamp the member between the legs, use a small size massager, stick it in almost to the stop, then squeeze the anus and legs.
I’m trying to repeat everything that I described in those notes, but I can’t, I understand that the primary goal is not the end, but the pleasure, but still maybe somewhere I made a mistake.
ps.sorry i used a translator ^-^
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/to46x0/i_understand_that_this_writing_is_already_many/
As you say, the main goal is to enjoy the pleasure you get. So, just relax and enjoy it and you will end up having an orgasm.
I was just like you, replicating exactly everything I did when I succeeded. But it doesn’t work like that, the more considerations the more thoughts you put into it will only further drive yourself away from the present moment. and being in the present is the most important factor for prostate orgasm to work. you succeeded wasn’t because you did every step correctly, but u simply enjoyed everything that came to you without any idea/thought, your body and mind went with the flow. we often forget that and try too hard to do the “right thing”. your experience is slightly different each time, let go of control. you don’t need to remember, just go with the flow and your body remembers it. learn to meditate, it helps with prostate/full body/multiple orgasm.