Too long ?

I have been experimenting for about 6 months pretty consistently, and I have too say, I didn’t know pelvic floor at that many muscles…

My question is can a prostate massager be too long ? I have 2 aneros ones, progasm and syn, and 2 other brands, though none really hit the the spot, it feels nice but that’s it, and I have found that by pulling it halfway out and contracting PC I really hit the spot, seems like maybe I need something with more curve ? also I have very big anterior pelvic tilt so I don’t think it helps

I had really great experience with one of the others that is really ribbed, by pushing towards belly button and moving strongly, I was leaking within a few minutes, it’s the most stimulation I ever had, but I only did that 2 out of 50 sessions, it feels really tiring on the wrist

Any advices, ideas, products is welcome, thanks !!