I just got the Helix Syn V.. I am straight, struggle with pleasure and the Helix Syn Trident was recommended; saw the vibrating option and went with it… why not.
I masturbate with a folded pillow between my legs and never have been able to stay hard or ejaculated with my hand or any other method known to myself.
This implies with sex I’ve had with women also! (I can stay hard and have sex for hours though never get an erge to orgasm.)
It wasn’t charged so cannot say that I know what it’s like with it vibrating though found it pretty disappointing? I have never put anything into myself before; used water-based warming lube and put it in.
I got an erection from putting it in then slowly grinded against my pillow (I usually squeeze my legs together and clench my arse as I thrust). I can’t say I felt any stimulation from it and felt like I just had something between my butt cheeks, the rest of the toy that was in me felt barely recognisable?
Am I doing something wrong..? pretty disappointed with the product atm..
I tried it for a solid hour and didn’t get myself off (that’s normal for me) I tend to struggle with my pillow for an hour + to orgasm.
Edit: what would also be the best way to store the prostate massager? I have just cleaned it and placed it back into the red box it had came in; would that be suitable storage for it?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/v7euch/just_recieved_my_first_anal_toy_in_the_mail_2/
Are you on an anti depressant? Reply by DM, if you like.
Some asthma meds disruptive eosinophils, which can have all kinds of implications. Talk to your doctor. Don’t be embarrassed. Believe me, they have heard it all!
I would ask your GP to refer you to a urologist. You should be able to orgasm anytime you have an erection, with an adequate amount of stimulation.
I agree with what’s already said, but I want to add a bit too.
Your prostate isn’t a magic button. If you press it while not aroused, it will just be a dull pressure. Get yourself nice and aroused first. This causes it to swell with fluid making it more sensitive and easier to find.
My next advice is to strengthen your PC muscles by doing daily kegel exercises (only needs to be 5 min a day) for 2 weeks. Then, with the toy inserted, try using your PC muscles and sphincter muscles to get the toy moving. (mindgasm.net is a great teaching tool.)