Hi! I’ve been on a journey to discover my prostate and the pleasure it can bring me , and I had some questions,
Whenever i’m playing with a prostate massager, a dildo, any anal toy really , should i not finish myself by jerking off since i can only cum that way right now?
I’ll be playing with a toy for a while and always end up jerking off to end the “session”, i was wondering if abstaining from jerking off and using my toys even though i might not cum in the end would help this “rewiring”
Tldr: can i jerk off when playing with my prostate or nah
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/w7r66q/rewiring_help/
I’ve seen some people recommend jerking until you hit the edge and then riding a dildo to get it to push you over. Once that’s learned then stop jerking a bit before you hit the edge and see if a toy will push you over. Keep going until hopefully you don’t need to jerk at all.
I edge to the point of ejaculation and then back off. I would do this for 30 minutes or longer. At that point I would try to push it to the edge again and barely cross the line and stop. The idea is to cause a ruined orgasm.
What will happen is the separation, (time), between orgasm and ejaculation will get longer. Separating the two is a must. It will also make your prostate play more intense. I also do semen retention for 14 to 21 days. This also increases your hornyness.