I am guessing I fall into a different category here than most. I don’t really like lying and relaxing with the Aneros and I don’t like the audio files that some here recommended.
BUT I also do NOT fall into the category of “I started using it and feel nothing!”. Quite the contrary.
I feel absoluty joy even when inserting, almost rolled my eyes the first time I was putting it in, I really do feel my prostate stimulated the moment I put it in. I do moan every single time I put it in, it’s so nice. It feels absolutely great wiggling and moving the toy around (something which you are supposed not to do). Not going to sugar coat it, I enjoy the feeling of the toy “fucking me” and rythmically pressing against my prostate. I also played with the idea of fixing it somewhere and riding it. It’s so much joy that I honestly can’t lie there and do nothing, even the muscle contraction movements are not half as good as manually moving the Aneros for me personally. I am still a beginner, but I bet that it will make me orgasm some day just by moving it back and forth with my hand, I feel a light rush but lose it because of overexitement.
Hope that wasn’t too graphic or too “slutty” and I apologize if people get offended by me using it as a pure sextoy. I wonder if there are people here feel the same way about it and if I have the right toy for it (Trident Syn Helix). Or maybe you can give me general advice what I can try instead.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/wb49ph/new_user_loving_it_but_do_i_have_the_wrong_toy/
I think you should look into dildos with a suction cup that you can ride. The Aneros toys are not really ment for thrusting.
I find myself manually moving the Aneros around as well. Just do whatever feels good
It’s possible that you want one that’s shorter or has more curve or mobility. Or maybe thicker. Always hard to say. I think my prostate is located very shallow, and the Helix isn’t a home run for me. I like my SGX better, or Progasm. The smaller SGX is more targeted, and the Progasm just hits everything due to size.
I’m going to try a Eupho soon to see how the higher mobility changes things.
Or maybe you’d prefer something like an NJoy wand.