So, last weekend I had a 3hour session, half of it with weed.
I started with my fingers and I barely could reach a kinda pleasurable spot inside with my indexfinger (maybe 5-6cm inside?) Now I again wonder if even the Aneros will hit it because I had to curve my finger kinda. I said it a year ago, and I say it now again: it feels like that there is a edge/bone whatever in the way and no toy can reach it, not even the Njoy Pure Wand :/ nothing pleasurable “just behind the anus” or what others write sometimes in my experience :/
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/wf4p6y/fingers_too_short_aneros_too/
The prostate is just not as deep as you think
Aneros is too damn short for me 5’8″
Mines like 4.5 / 5 inches in there.
[get one of these](https://imgur.com/a/KWTJrCq)
Have you ever found your prostate before?
I ask because one of the key components that took me a while to figure out is that you have to be really aroused in order for it to feel pleasurable. If you touch it without any warmup, it just feels like a dull pressure.
One thing that I have tried is to actually use my thumb to reach my prostate. I find that the bottom end of my prostate is just inside my anus and feels like this 🔻. Pushing further in with my thumb I can reach to about the center and it feels like this 🥚. Not so much bulging and pronounced but flat with a point facing down. If you wish to try this lay on your left side with knees drawn up towards chest. Insert your thumb from behind. Once you get the thumb in press towards your penis and explore around. You may be surprised that it’s right there.
How long have you been using Aneros by the way?