Hey been using aneros again after a few years(stopped as had no feelings), trying again with a progasm and with a different mindset.
I have found that using it in the bath in silence with my head under the water has given hopefully some results.
After ten mins or so of totally relaxing I start to clench both muscles starting softly until after another ten mins I’m clenching as hard as I can and start to feel my heart beat strongly and it moves down to either my prostate or close by, is this a sign I’m on the right track?
Also when people talk about involuntaries does yhat mean the muscles are clenching on their own or what I’m finding that when I’m holding a contraction it’s pulsing?
Any help or advise would be amazing !!!
Thanks
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does it feel good? then keep doing it.
have you tried using your hand to add extra pressure/move it gently? That can help when getting used to the new sensations. Or even holding a vibrator against it.
Dont think i have a similar experience with you abt the heartbeat thing. But remember you need to clench your hole and be horny at the same time too for it to work.
I have a naturally sensitive prostate and the whole experience is subjective, but I’ll try to give some actionable advice.
You’re on the right track. Only thing is, at this point, you shouldn’t be clenching too hard. There is some truth to kegeling during sex to avoid orgasm (or ejaculation by itself). Many have reported being on the brink of HFO or p-gasm, they “chase the super-o” by clenching or otherwise tensing up, then it goes away. Certainly has happened to me and perhaps that’s the same kind of orgasm-avoidance-technique on accident. Like pressing the wrong button.
All that said, try getting to a more relaxed state. I just hope the shower isn’t your only guaranteed place of privacy. Idk your life but i’d struggle to get off in the showers.
As for your question on involuntaries, my answer is both! Realistically, you should prefer the PC involuntaries that happen on their own. It starts off subtle, maybe for longer than one can tolerate initially, but the involuntaries themselves are pleasurable and “stack” or “lead to another,” which leads to one cumming his brains out. I’ve found they’re more frequent and intense during relaxation.
Could be different for you, and this is where it’s probably the most subjective; perhaps consider a smaller toy. Maybe you like the depth, but maybe a smaller toy will help develop those intricate feelings that will lead to leakage.
Lastly and most importantly. This is a point that people don’t seem to drive home enough and, frankly, I’m tempted to do a long, more rambly post on just this topic because it annoys me how this gets thrown by the wayside by people always buying new toys.
DO YOUR FUCKING KEGELS!!!
Sets of 100 quick ones.
Sets of 100 w/ 0.5s hold.
Sets of 100 squeezing hard as you can.
Sets of 100 in different positions.
Sets of 100 w/ small kegel after each normal one.
Sets of 100 w/ a smaller toy.
Listen. I been prostate-playing since puberty. If 100 kegels w/ aneros in doesn’t make me cum, the next 100 will.