Hi guys! I just ordered my first prostate toy and decided that the aneros helix syn trident was a good one to start with. I’ve been reading about how to use safely online, but does anyone have any other tips that I may not be thinking about? Super excited to use it soon and will report back on my progress.
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Read my comment on this one, it should get you started!
Hope you’re thinking about this one: DO YOUR KEGELS!!
If you’re just starting out, legit just do as many kegels as you can on a consistent basis. Before you even use the toy, try to get to 100 full-range, no-bs kegels w/ no break. Once you can do that, or if you can already, then do sets of 100.
The relevant reasons behind kegels are to strengthen the PC muscles to a) give them the stamina to carry you to orgasm, b) make you cum hard when you get there, and c) get your prostate involved much more than just stimulation by itself.
Kegels unlocked super-os for me, but even before that, edging is what unlocked the p-gasms. You may have a hard time actually “getting” stimulation to your prostate, no matter if you’re on soft or bricked, due to lack of arousal in the specific area. What I used to do is edge to near-orgasm and try to get my dick to “twitch like it’s cumming w/o ejaculating,” if that makes sense. Not sure if i was edging to dry-o but it never felt like cumming…until one day i slid a finger in while the twitches happened. It…was a rather weak p-gasm, but distinct, and the twitches didn’t stop until the finger did.
To involve the prostate more w/o direct stimulation, you may try kegeling to avoid crossing over to orgasm while edging. If you get that down, it’s very important to remember that it’s a legit technique that will indeed kill your HFOs. At some point, you’re guaranteed to accidentally do that by tensing up too hard or “bearing down” on your prostate or toy as you approach orgasm. I’ve done that so many times and lost so many orgasms. Better to recognize the feeling when not doing an aneros session so you know what to NOT do.
Most of this is just getting some blood and stimulation to the prostate to help develop the pleasurable feelings that one of these toys can draw out. Other than that, i can cosign all of an3ros152’s comment
be prepared for possible disappointment. These things don’t work for everyone. I’ve tried three different ones and all did nothing for me.
Be patient and relax, relax, relax.
SENSITIZE YOUR NIPPLES.. lube and rub them…