Renewed interest in my aneros after many months of it sitting in my closet. I got close this past Monday after reading the quick and dirty method post. I tried again today and got even closer. Liberator pillow under my pelvis, legs up with feet flat on either side. Almost immediately I got involuntaries but that kinda set my expectations high and led to some frustration after I tried repeatedly to visualize something sexual to arouse me. Tried a couple different positions but then ended up back how I started, and focused on feeling rather than imagery. My pelvic area began to convulse involuntarily and then I started imagining something non-sexual: a cup overflowing, fireworks, a balloon being blown up. This seemed to enhance things and let me focus on maintaining my breathing. I then imagined something sexual and that got me closer than I’ve ever been. I could feel I was just on the verge of reaching the point of no return and moments away from full body waves. But then my fucking hip started cramping up and that kind of ruined things for me. Did some stretching then went at it again. Got to that same point but I just couldn’t control my breathing in a way that wasn’t super distracting! I feel this is my biggest hurdle next to my mental focus. It was a good session nonetheless and has encouraged me to keep at it.
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I find that prostate stimulation is more like erotic meditation that just regular masturbation. Learning mindfulness and how to clear my mind of mental noise really helped me advance in my prostate play. If my head is buzzing with distracting thoughts from the day not much happens.
Having a clear mind focused on what’s happening in the current moment (having my prostate stimulated to delicious ecstasy) and deep controlled breathing are my personal key to getting in the zone. This allows me to gradually enter a different mental state, a state of pure sexual experience, as the session progresses and the orgasms start washing over me.
Nice man, I have also strayed away from fantasy for the most part. It’s truly a meditation, an exercise in detachment while maintaining awareness of the present experience.
What is the quick and dirty method?