So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it.
Anyway, I’m fairly new on here (although I have looked at posts from time to time) and I saw Mindgasm mentioned so I thought I’d give that a try. Something about it appealed to me and although I don’t think you are specifically meant to use a toy while you follow the audio (I haven’t so far) I like the idea of a guided session. I felt like my first session (I actually did lesson 1 and 2 back to back) actually awoke something and I felt like it was the most progress I’d made in 5 years. This was about a week ago. I had a few more sessions in the week (still only lessons 1 & 2) but didn’t feel I progressed any further. But then I was in work alone on Friday and had 10 minutes until closing time and I just had a couple of gentle squeezes just as a little experiment. And something REALLY happened. I obviously wasn’t intending for a full session there and then as I was about to finish work for the day. I drove home with the sensation still “on” and when I got home I got into bed and just relaxed/did some flexing. I felt pleasure building and really felt like it was gonna build to a climax but unfortunately after a while I lost it. I’ve tried over this weekend to repeat the experience but without much success. Maybe some pleasure but not quite finding that sweet spot again. I’m obviously encouraged by my experience but also scared I won’t be able to repeat it. The thing is it was absolutely effortless on Friday when I managed to kick it off. I also wasn’t expecting anything so maybe that is also part of the reason for the success. Btw, I did try with my Helix Syn Trident last night and my Progasm later on Friday night and while the sessions were pleasurable they just didn’t quite find the spot again.
Anyway, sorry for the post without a specific question or anything. Just wanted to share my thoughts/experience
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/106h43v/bit_of_a_ramble/