I just recently got the program jr as my first aneros toy. I am not a newbie to anal as I have used many standard toys such as, dildos, and vibrators. In general would say I am quite experienced with anal play as I have been doing it for several years. However I have been struggling to rewire and learning to feel with only my prostate and have some questions.
-How long does it take to rewire on average
-Starting out should I be doing anything at all eg. listening to audio, watching porn, etc. or should I just focus on the toy
-During the rewiring process should I edge before sessions
-Does masturbation slow it down
-What am I looking to feel and focus on like everyone says
Excuse any grammatical mistakes as this was written on my phone.
Forgot to add a few things. I have had about 5 or so sessions so far with little to no luck. First 2 sessions felt some good vibes and thats it. I have not been masturbating for about 1 week.
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Arousal is probably the most important part since it generally makes the prostate swell and have more sensitivity. It’s probably best to keep arousal up with visualization since porn can be distracting. Next is working on control of the sphincter and PC muscles individually. I can feel pleasure at any time now just from very specific and accurate control of those muscles. Mindgasm is a good resource to learn and practice that control. Hopefully this helps!
Yeah agreed with an3ros152, you need to think of rewiring not in the context of getting off, but more in the context of learning the sensations involved, going back to basics.
Mindgasm has free vids on YouTube, it’s a fantastic way to get started of learning the right sensations.
>What am I looking to feel and focus on like everyone says
Right now as I generate aless the feeling is like the very early beginning of the point of no return. Just a warm glow. It’s that warm glow that you wish to focus on and build on to reach the prostate orgasm. Keep in mind that the pleasure can manifest anywhere and not just in the prostate. Also I find it helps to watch videos of female orgasm and study their approach. Generally I see their orgasms as more open based, stretched out, mouth open. I see it as if they are drawing the energy in as opposed to male orgasm which I see as tight, clenched, and more projecting the pleasure out. A good subredit to look at is called “orgasmic contractions.” Again, hope this helps and hope it sort of makes sense. A lot of this practice is so outside the realm of typical male experience that it’s hard to describe.
I agree with everything said here, in response to your question.
I recommend not touching your D.
Just lay there, for me it’s on back feet flat.
No porn recommended, ruins it every time.
It is difficult to describe the what and how’s- try to pretend you are in a woman’s body and she is super horny. Play with your prostate (hands free) with thoughts like it is her g spot.
Hope this helps.