as I continue to work my way towards hands free dry orgasms and the elusive super O, I had some questions that I was hoping to get some help with. I was also curious on what type of advice some of the more seasoned veterans would give to someone who still has yet to have a super O / HFDO but feels like they’re getting close.
about how many times a week should someone ideally be practicing when they’re still trying to acquire their first dry orgasm/super O?
do you abstain from sex/masturbation completely?
does it not really matter to some? (i.e sex and aneros use in the same day but spread out; morning and night for example)
do you recommend cannabis use?
are there any techniques that helped you experience your break through and achieve that very first super O?
I have made some really good progress in the past month or two, experiencing p-waves more frequently (sometimes nice deep ones that radiate through my body), experiencing involuntary contractions, I think i’ve experienced an anal orgasm, I now genuinely focus on enjoying the whole session and let the pleasure come to me as opposed to “chasing” the good feelings and trying to control them like I used to, sometimes it feels like my body becomes so light that it feels as if i’m almost being lifted out of my body which was scary but is now enjoyable, etc.
it feels like i’m on the cusp of something great but i just can’t seem to break through the ceiling.
as always, all advice is extremely appreciated by myself and the newer users in the community !
Cheers
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We’re all a bit different, so what works for me might not work for everyone. My favourite Aneros is the Progasm because it hits my sweet spot like no other toy I own. What made a difference for me is as a lot of other guys have mentioned, not chasing an orgasm and simply enjoying the moment and giving in to the pleasure your prostate is giving you. With a little luck, a Super O might very well be your reward. Abstaining from masturbating or sex for a few days certainly helps as does nipple play.
I’m in the same boat you are and I’ve been at it for over 7 years. I’m not complaining at all as I’m enjoying every single session including fantastic the Aless version.
What I’m enjoying is new pleasures that I never had before discovering prostate play.
You’re labelling too much. Just determine before each session that you will experience what your body gives you without judgment or comment. And accept the fact your body knows what it wants and what it’s doing and doesn’t appreciate interference from your chattering mind. Just let this energy that’s within us do its thing and all you have to do is lie back and experience it. You can’t force it. It will come to you if you get the place where it happens ready, and that’s your mind. No words, no comment, no judgment, just pure experience.
Yes! Cannabis, absolutely helps as long as you have the right cannabinoids to induce hornieness. Prostate stimulation always before sex, not the other way though. I recommend every other day session at most, three times per week is ideal. As for technique, I will send you an invite to a page I started on Reddit- I have posted a bit about this very topic recently on there.
Very easy solution (if anyone reads my postings over and over again… but why?) stimulate and sensitize your Nipples (those things on your Chest)… lube them, flick them, rub them, excite them… eventually you will totally enjoy the feeling they provide and they will feel totally attached to your prostate and you’ll feel tremendous stimulation… most of the guys who have tried and understand this tip, have amazing results… good luck..
>do you abstain from sex/masturbation completely?
It can help, but I wouldn’t get too hung up over going for too long. After a week I get diminishing returns. People will say you shouldn’t touch your penis while using the Aneros, but in my view there’s a time and place for it. Recently I’ve decided to always have an Aneros in during regular masturbation. I think that’s actually really helped my prostate only sessions. I’m not sure I could really explain why, but for me it has made my mind-prostate connection stronger. Whether or not you and an Aneros session with an ejaculation is up to you. For me it depends on my mood and what I’m trying to accomplish.
Experiment with it to see what works best for you.