I hipecyall don’t mind – I am going to use this account to document my aneros/prostate play journey. I will post mostly to my profile but when I have a break thru or questions, I will go ahead and put in r/aneros.
A little about me: 47 years old, married for 17. I am a complete newb to solo prostate play. My wife has tried to stimulate my prostate with a finger and a toy before, but I’ve never felt anything but uncomfortable. The last time she tried, I googled why I’m not getting anything good, and eventually found Aneros and that’s why I’m here.
I purchased the Helix Syn Trident and finally had the opportunity to try it last night. I asked my wife for some “alone time” where I wouldn’t be disturbed. I took a quick shower to clean up and then a nice, long, hot bath to relax. I hopped in bed, lubed up, and worked the Aneros in…slowly. when it inserted, it felt completely fine…not uncomfortable at all, but I knew it was there.
I put on my headphones and listened to mindgasm – the first lesson. It went great! I definitely had involuntary contractions as I flexed my base – like my hip and thigh muscles were pulsing, in addition to my PC muscles. I enjoyed it so much I went to the second. lesson two was about vibrating the sweet spot -I was able to do that once but could not repeat it.
I started flaccid but got quite erect several times. Lots of precum.
I should add: I am not in a good mind space for this right now. It’s been an incredibly stressful week at work and I have a hard time letting go; it definitely affects my libido. But, I figure I probably won’t feel much the first couple of times anyway so maybe it’s a good time to just get used to the feeling. But, between the bath and mindgasm relaxation, I am a hell of a lot more relaxed than I was before.
And, I’m looking forward to trying again.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/122mnzo/first_session/
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So exciting being new to the journey! It will take a lot of learning and practice but the result is well worth it when you arrive. When you’re comfortable with it definitely involve the help of your loving wife. A partner in this sensual journey is a gift. Study her path to orgasm and look to borrow elements from it. I like to think of a woman’s orgasm as “open.” Stretched out, mouth open, inviting the pleasure. Opposed to male orgasm that I see as “closed.” Clenched, rigid, focused on the goal of release. Look to learn from her as you learn from other sources. Hope I didn’t ramble too much, haha, just passionate about the Super-O!