Hi there! Got very excited about mindful prostate play. Have been enjoying this kind of meditation for almost 2 weeks. It really gets me relaxed, wow…
A little bit of background: I’m gay, 22yo, bottom. So some feelings and cravings are not new for me đ
I use my dildo every once in a while, and I know how ejaculatory orgasms feel this way… But I remember that I was always at some point when I was on the edge and couldn’t get over it (acceleration doesn’t help). So I get real sweat and all, a lot of precum craving for something more, so I usually need to finish it by hands. But then I found articles on anal orgasms and according to descriptions that what I was craving for all the time! So yeah then I found aneros, purchased progasm and here I am.
So far, I found the most comfortable position laying on my back, bent knees, feet flat, but over some time I just lay on my back flat. Ive started doing kegels recently, and it makes me horny af all the time, so I crave for the aneros all day haha. Today I tried mingasm, just really helped to separete out the muscles. Actually I can get some nice subtle feelings in my booty very easily during the day, I could feel what and where my prostate was and all, even before having aneros, but now its all sharpened a bit. Also, I found that my d is now very sensetive all the time (especially head) , even in a soft mode, idk if it’s OK.. Now I can get some shivers down there without aneros as well (question below). As for the session, I defenitely can feel a lot things, very subtle, sometime the d gets hard out of the blue, but then it dies out. Sometime I get some small kicks in my pelvic area (like prostate outside), and it turns into some body wave, but then dies out.
Seems like involuntaries are hard to separate out. I kinda figured how to separate sphincter and root of my d muscles. And when I contract the latter, it always starts shaking very tensely at the root of the d. And when I try to keep it there, it gets mentally hard to keep doing that, like it’s nice, but tiring. Sometimes half way letting it out I can get a feeling as if a needle pricks in a middle of sphincter and the d, and it gives some pleasant full body wave, which dies out quickly though. This is pretty much it. Can you please confirm if those are the involuntaries we’re after? Some ppl say that it must be subtle and like where the prostate and aneros meet..
Also, I found that watching any arousing stuff gets me very horny quickly, I’m kinda very sexy all day long (maybe hormones), is it better to not use any visual/audio stuff? Just focusing on feelings?
Maybe some other hints (maybe specifically for bottoms đ)
Thanks! Toys on!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/12uo6z1/have_started_my_journey_maybe_some_clues/
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I also realized that my d is too sensetive so that I need to pull out my shorts a bit to not touch my d even when I’m going about my day, and it’s soft, and all small touches resonate from the d to the prostate.
Hello! For me involuntaries are not a necessity but I can get them occasionally. They are kind of a flutter of your muscle groups brought on by fatigue in them. Sounds like you are getting some of the nice sensations that will lead to the promised land! The trick is to just let them happen, focus on them without actively trying to push them along if that makes sense. As far as visual or audio aids, I don’t use visual since it’s too distracting, but I do have a really good 2 hour relaxing audio that I listen to. Really sets my mind to floating.
If you are a bottom you are presumably used to getting fucked or at least you like it or the idea of it. I think it is very useful to get in the mindset that gets you fully aroused. I donât think porn is best for that, because we subconsciously equate porn with masturbation and because it can be distracting you from the micro sensations and what your body is telling you. So I recommend trying to bring your mind to an aroused place by imagining being fucked, tenderly or being used, whatever you like. Imagine your partners and what the might do to you in minute detail.
For me involuntaries are clear as day, and anyone with fingers in my ass can confirm it. My asshole and other muscles throb in and out 2-4 times a second for seconds on end. But it isnât âinvoluntary,â rather it is controlled by the tug o war method AKA quick and dirty method. Look it up on the official aneros forum.