I (42 F) bought my boyfriend (46 M) a Helix Syn V for his birthday. He loves prostate play. He’s also talked generally about trying some light fem dom bondage.
He’s tied my up and used toys on me before and it blew my mind.
I’m looking for ideas on how to introduce him to his birthday present. I’d like for him to be blindfolded and at least partially restrained.
What would be a good position to have him restrained in?
Any other suggestions on making this his best birthday ever?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/13qau5l/how_to_use_a_helix_syn_v_on_my_man/
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I’m so jealous of him for having such a wonderful gf like you ! I don’t know about bondage but I’ve used aneros for many years and here’s my take on each position:
Prone: This used to be my favorite. With gravity the toy goes deeper in the ass and contractions feel stronger
Supine: Still feels good but everything is a bit more subtle. + you’re likely to attach his hands so idk if it will be comfortable for him.
‘Missionary’: My bed is in the corner of by bedroom so I usually lie on my back and put my feet on the wall (kinda like missionary). My current favorite. It feels so good and I feel a lot more like a sub in that position. Contractions also feel stronger than just lying on my back
Fetal: Feels good as weel, especially when I tuck my dick, can bring in some new sensations
For all the other positions (standing, ass up face down), they can be great but most of the time I cant go for long sessions so I switch to easier positions.
Hope that helps. Also remember aneros toys are very different from other toys so he might not even feel any pleasure at all while using it for the first time. Don’t feel like it’s your fault or his if it happens, sometimes people take years to get a few sensations (posted my journey on my profile if you’re interested). There are also some helpful tutorials to become a pro with aneros, if you want them you can dm me 🙂
ps: all in all i would go for prone
Aneros is more of a solo toy. It requires a meditative mindset and muscle contractions to use properly, it’s not really meant to be used “on” someone else.
I’d recommend a dildo, vibrator, or strap on. Lelo or tantus make excellent quality toys
I have a small [section](https://pgasmfun.com/how-to-use-an-aneros/) on my site about this… maybe it’ll give you some good ideas?
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If only there were more like you.