A new journey

Sorry if this is a long post but I wanted to share my experience and would welcome any advice…

I’ve been an Aneros user for about 10 years, and have tried the Helix, Helix Trident, MGX, Progasm, Eupho Trident and now have a Maximus.

I’d had occasional pleasant feelings but nothing close to some of the experiences described in this forum. I didn’t bother trying for several years but then read through some of the details and tips provided in this forum recently and decided to try again. Some of the key changes that I’ve tried over the last few weeks..

1. Remove any expectation of an orgasm and just enjoy any good feelings
2. Breathing deeply when you inhale and exhale and using your whole body to do it
3. Big contractions aren’t good – either do nothing or do very gentle contractions
4. Use lots of lube (I’ve been trying boy butter recently and it feels much better and I don’t dry up as quickly).
5. Doing pelvic floor exercises through the day

I’ve had a lot more pleasurable feelings since doing this but last night was quite something else – although I didn’t have what would be described as a Pgasm or Super-O.

My wife and I went to bed and I was feeling a bit horny. She fell asleep so I decided to put the Maximus in and just have a light session and see what happened.

Very quickly, I was experiencing different sensations to what I’ve had before. Deep breathing alone very quickly generated sensations in my prostate. After about 15 minutes, I started doing very light PC, Anal and Rectal contractions and just experimented with various combinations of them.

Each attempt produced really warm feelings in my groin and, after about an hour, I could feel what felt like an orgasm building. This could be in slightly different places depending on what type of contraction I was doing and holding.

Perhaps the most intense sensation was when I was pushing out / doing a rectal contraction. This seemed to be the one that made the Aneros feel like it was about to fuck me.

I was enjoying it so much that I kept going for about 5 hours. I stopped and took a breather when things seemed to have slowed down or if I needed a breather.

However, while the sensations were great and different to anything I’ve had before, they always kept me at a point where I can best describe it as when you’re about to have a regular orgasm but not quite get there. This happened whichever position I was in or whatever particular contraction or combo I was doing.

What I did notice though was that, whilst my breathing and contractions were very relaxed at the start of each phase, I ended up doing strong involuntary contraction holds when I was getting close to what felt like it might be an orgasm.

I think this is what might have killed off tipping me over the edge.

I noticed that I was holding a strong anal contraction but the PC contraction had really stopped. I’m not sure how to best describe it but it’s the subtle PC contraction and moving the Aneros with it that seems to give me the initial warm feeling but controlling it too much can kill things off whilst not controlling it at all seems to shift me to holding a strong anal contraction only.

Additionally, my breathing became faster and my mind started being filled with all kinds of crap as I got closer. Trying to relax it then (like I did at the start of the session or each build up) so that I could just focus on the great feelings seemed to have the opposite effect.

I decided not to finish off with a traditional orgasm and I’m still feeling warm feelings in my prostate now.

Sorry for the long post but just wondered if anyone had similar experiences to the above and what helped get you further.