Hi, 37M here, struggling with Aneros for two years now (I have eupho, helix and progasm).
I have managed to learn to have a lot of intense P-waves that start as soon as I put an aneros in, and I had what I think that were a few prostate orgasms, but reading other people descriptions I suppose that they were in the range of the less intense ones. Obviously, I have never experienced a super O nor anything that resembles it.
Having a well toned pelvic floor, and having achieved what I think that its a good control of it, I have a few questions now that I’m an advanced but not succesful user:
1. Does anybody here feel dizzy when using Aneros? Is not a very heavy feeling, but I always feel a little dizzy when using it.
2. I don’t know why, but I usually don’t feel anything in the pelvis when having pleasure. The P-waves start in my stomach and go to my head.
3. I don’t usually get hard and, when I get hard, it seems to be problematic for me because I lose the feelings, I suppose that it’s because Aneros moves from its place or something like that.
4. In this thread lot of people say that a good way to know that u’re in place I seeing precum. I usually feel pleasure, but i don’t see precum very often. Should I try to target with my Aneros to the spot that produces it?
5. Heavy closing your eyes and looking upwards make a boost in your p-waves? In my case it does, but it’s like they are “bad p-waves”. They make me tense and the next one is less intense than before. I usually can’t control it at some point.
My feeling is that I’m very advanced but I probably caught some bad habits, and that maybe I should do some roll up and start from the basics. Let’s see if I can find here some clue to bring me to the correct path again.
Thank you all.
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Hi, I believe you are overthinking too much and probably it, and the expectations you have build.
You should try to relax and enjoy what your body gives : it seems you are near to having Super O.
It is common no having an erection (in fact it is a good signal as all focus/pleasure is on your prostate).
About the precum it depends of the person.
The prostate play with a prostate massager is very similar to the nipple play. In fact they are someway related (this is the reason why they awaken on lot of people who uses prostate massager).
You can use both at same time.
They are toon of tricks and info on /r/nippleorgas
I can say from my experience that 3 and 4 are pretty stock standard problems when trying to use an aneros.
I’ll be honest, I don’t think there’s a strong link to producing precum and having a good session. Some of my best sessions end with me packing everything up and noticing no precum left behind. (This is purely from surfing this subreddit and my experience)
Also, the whole erection distracting you is a common problem. It’s a mental hurdle to get over but once you do you’ll find that you’ll be able to enjoy even more of those amazing feelings you’ve felt up until now.
When you notice yourself getting hard, just try to visualise the toy in your ass and remind yourself that it’s there, if that’s not enough then just keep focusing on where you were feeling those sensations, even if they’re not there when your hard.
Hope this helps.
Don’t worry about your penis AT ALL. If it’s hard, that’s fine, if it’s soft, that’s fine too. Same with precum or the lack of it. If you get an erection and you’re focused on trying to make it go away, then you’re not focusing on you prostate…
Forget you have a penis, unless it’s adding to the pleasure as a secondary focus. You can experience Super-Os while soft, or rock hard, or in-between.
It might be best to avoid the bad p-waves, they come from tension. Keep you eyes centered or neutral, and let you jaw lower a bit. If you are “hearing the sea”, like listening inside a conch, that’s probably bad tension in you jaw, too. Part you lips and smile a bit, this will help, you’re supposed to be getting happy feeling anyway 😉 Good luck !