Hello all, first I would like to thank this community. There is so much support and encouragement no matter what point of the journey you are on. I feel like I’ve read every post, tip, trick, and story out there. I am jealous but hopeful that I will eventually get to the fable super O.
This whole thing has opened me up to a world of new feeling that I never thought possible. My main problem is that I get more out of an Aless session then one using a toy. I just don’t seem to feel the direct feedback from the aneros on my prostate.
Straight male but I am no stranger to butt play. and as long as I have been jerking off I have been putting things in my ass. I get excited by the thought of anal play.
2 years ago I ordered a helix trident and started out with mindgasm lessons, and that really helped me to identify and target the muscles and have a strong control over them. I have been doing kegels for many years and consider my pelvic floor to be strong.
During a normal session I usually try to get very horny with porn or photos before starting. I can fairly easily get involuntaries going and start to build to some pleasurable feelings. After a while I’ll feel a flash of pleasure, but it’s just that a flash and causes my body to tense up. Is this a P-wave ? The feeling is really good but so strong that it knocks me out of a rhythm. I do have a hard time relaxing completely. I am generally a tense person and don’t really understand how to complete relax my body. I have tried THC (hybrid) edibles and while I think that helps I usually get too tired and fall asleep. I try to abstain from jerking when I can but after about a week it ends in a hfwo, I think I’m just so horny that the smallest touch sets me off.
I have been working on nipple play but they’re just not that sensitive to touch but I’m working on that.
I’m interested in the Eupho Trident but I don’t know if I’m just going to have the same problems as with the Helix. I think I’m just hoping a different shaped toy will work better.
Should I focus on Aless or would a different toy make any difference. If anyone has any advice I would appreciate it.
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Takes awhile… maybe a few years.. just gotta keep working it and playing… you’re on your way but it doesn’t happen over night…
You say you get more out of the Aless sessions.
Then the Eupho Syn Trident, or even the smaller Peridise might be worth a try for you.
They are small but punch hard!
What are “Aless Sessions”???