Male chastity is working for me. I understand the “denial” (D) aspect of T & D while in male chastity. I wore my new CB-6000S for 7 hours yesterday and feel very comfortable in it. It seems that my body is well aware that it will not get the opportunity to get erections, so I didn’t seem to have many throughout the day. I performed a thorough exam of my testicles and scrotal sac afterwards and have found nothing of concern. I could have gone another 7 hours.
But the “tease” (T) aspect of T & D is another story. Let me explain…….
I unlocked my cage yesterday before retiring to bed with my wife. Earlier in the day, I had a nice edging session with “edgemeplease.com” with a lot of precum. I also wore my Shock Doctor cup and used a vibrator on various parts of it; I felt an amazing, arousing sensation all throughout my male anatomy. Ready for bed and some cuddling. But something happened; while laying there with my wife, I began to get hard. Not just any erection but a “stick-like” erection that wouldn’t quit. I snuggled close to her and “guided” her hand to where I wanted it. She proceeded to give me a slow, “teasing” handjob and just ignored my moans. She kept this up for perhaps 25 minutes or so and I feel my precum leaking. Then, she stopped. No “finishing” move for me; I just laid there waiting for the collapse of my erect cock. (Is she catching on to chastity and T & D?) My erection finally collapsed but then something else happened. I felt so close to her and I’m sure she felt it too. So I embraced her again, this time tighter than before and began to get hard all-over again! There was to be no more “teasing” for it was almost time for sleep. But I retired to bed with an intense longing for her, one which I did not have until recently. Is this truly the “T & D” aspect of male chastity that I have read about? It is happening to me? I read that the prolonged and deliberate T & D aspect of male chastity is almost unbearable for most guys. I suppose it is happening to me too. Obviously, I am not in chastity all that long, but I can imagine continuing this chastity “play” for a longer and longer duration. Especially, the constant “teasing” of my cock. There is a feeling of almost continuous arousal, like an hours-long foreplay. It puts the male’s brain in another world, another dimension, one which there is no orgasmic escape for him. This is the world of male chastity and it is so real.
My wife does not yet know of my new “toy” and I need to find a way to break the news to her. I need to be discreet but honest and trust that she will understand my delight in being beholden only to her and no one else. After all, she is the “keyholder” if only symbolically for now…..my brain and my body are geared for chastity. How does it feel? I invite you to go down the path; you will be utterly amazed at the feeling! As @SOwithoutAneros pointed out: “Sex is pleasurable, it is a good feeling to cum. But being denied is euphoric.”
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/tease-and-denial-a-reality-check/