I abstain from orgasm for a few days in order to get in the mood, try the aneros for a few days without orgasm, not get very far, have traditional orgasm, then my motivation to go through that again is gone for several months. It’s pretty frustrating for that cycle to keep repeating.
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Ahh, so! I just had a couple of [very positive steps](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/7gfrqb/10_years_on_a_little_guidance_needed/dqjgwpu/) _very_ recently, so maybe the blind can lead the blind. And in fact, one of them was 3 hours ago today.
Im sure what Ive ‘discovered’ has been said before, but figuring out my own body took a little time.
Ive been messing around with Aneros for around 8ish years, general analness for 20. Course if I knew then what I know ..
I dont know how different different bodies are, so its hard to say what is just because of me, and generalizable. Im 5’4. Who knows if that makes a difference, but I figured Id throw it out there.
Ok, so. I thought i had written this up, but I dont see it.
So, I did my usual prep work. Enema, between 5ml and 20ml of lube (sometimes I like the feeling of a lot). Slip it in and lay down.
I lay on my right side. For my legs, Ive tried the right one fully extended to my knee pointing straight out. My right is typically pointing straight up, though Ive varied that too. Sometimes I breathe, sometimes I dont. I play with different muscle constrictions depending on the day, trying to hit the right set to make things happen.
Turns out for _me_, that was a straw man.
Usually, things feel pretty good, even great. But .. not the right feeling. Sometimes it gets a sort of intense and I think its going somewhere, but its not really.
I had to take care of something in the house, so I slipped it out, and went and took care of things. When I came back I just sort of collapsed on the bed on my right side. My knees were at 135 degrees, and my hips were also at 135, sort of like a slanted N. Knees were together (which is rare, though Im sure Ive done it before but . . . )
*Suddenly* my butt was alive! Twinges all over, some deep in my cheeks. These built on each other, until I couldnt stand it. I eventually gave in and finished myself off. But, its a marathon not a sprint, so plenty of time to figure it out.
My second break through was today. I brought my knees close to my chest (say 110 degrees), and things were even better! Sadly I couldnt take the time to explore.
_But_!
I had some time so I started fingering my prostate. Usually this just makes me mad, since it also seems like I was getting nowhere. I started how I normally do, which is knees spread apart, and while nice, not much. But, taking my new found knowledge I closed them, and BAM, things woke up!
I finished off with a hands free prostate orgasm, which Im pretty proud of. Cum just leaked out, and the … climax was unlike anything else Ive felt. I will say, it was _less_ than a _really_ good orgasm, but I can definitely see the potential there. Things remained sensitive after leaking the cum out, so next time I can play with that more. I also, hurried it along a bit since I had things I needed to do.
Whew.
I’ve noticed that the anal refractory period grows smaller and smaller overtime. When I first started anal and still had to fishing with traditional orgasms my mind would be disgusted by trying anal again it would take a week or so to get the craving back, now even after finishing with a tradition organs I’m craving anal again but the next day or but the end of the day if I go at it in the morning or mid day.