Background: I’ve owned an Aneros since February 2011, and it took me 3-4 years to have HFWOs, and 5-6 years to be able to have Super-Os. I had originally bought an Aneros because I have BPH (largely gone now).
First, another Super-O Story since people enjoy hearing about them. Second, answers to the questions people PMed me after my last thread got archived (Sorry I don’t often login on this account).
This has been my longest Super-O yet, and I achieved it much more quickly this time. In the cooler months is easier to relax I find. I was lazy and decided I would just try and shut my mind off for about 20 minutes and do nothing.
Next, I did my usual technique of just rubbing spots on my body, everywhere but my nipples. Began trying to get a fantasy in my head. I started telling myself too that even if I had a HWFO, it didn’t matter, so long as I enjoyed the session. I was not going to let the fear of a HWFO ruin my session, so I simply thought it from a fear to a “It’s okay if that happens” thing.
Did a few contractions to get my PC muscles warmed up. It was hard to focus as I was tired, but managed to just barely do so. Did some more teasing of my body, got my fantasy ready, and touched my nipples.
Of course this instantly felt good like it always does. I just enjoyed it, tried to focus on my fantasy. Eventually my mind wandered off to a semi-sleep state while I was enjoying it.
I could feel the Aneros being pulled up while also being pushed out at the same time. My abs got more involved this time, as did bladder area of my stomach. The P-Tab was on the perfect spot to constantly have a tug of war with my PC muscles moving the Aneros.
Finally my visualization of my fantasy started going wonky. Imagine watching a CGI film, and it gradually go from a high poly count to a low-poly count. Suddenly you can’t make out features on anything. That’s literally what happened in my head. Kind of cool since usually I just see flashes of color.
At was at this point I realized I was in the Super-O state, and it felt good. I felt like I had an orgasm in my throat, my chest, my heart and lungs, it was a pretty nice feeling, but those didn’t matter. I couldn’t even comprehend what they were in this state.
What I could comprehend was that somewhere, there was a ball, and that ball was getting so much pleasure that it felt like it was getting larger and larger, infact, it basically consumed me. It was kind of like being in an alternate universe. When my foot tapped suddenly and I felt it, My foot felt like it was 50 times the size it was, somehow in this bizarre universe.
I sat there and enjoyed this for a good 20 minutes. It was around that time I decided I had all that I could handle. I looked at my clock and noticed I had only Had about a 50 minute session. Meaning, I had a Super-O within 30 minutes, one of the shortest I had. I’ve had shorter, but they were sudden and unexpected.
Anyways it was great session. They’ve becoming more frequent now. I’m even getting those changes physical/mental changes people talk about. My prostate all day sends a nice feeling through my body that I can feel. It feels very healthy and alive. It’s had a super positive effect on my day to day life and it makes me feel less lazy and dead, and more energetic and alive.
**That’s the end of my latest Story.**
Finally, these are things I’ve learned that I hope might be useful to other people. People have asked for my perspective/advice as someone who took years to achieve it. I don’t claim any of this will work for you, YMMV.
Now that I know what a Super-O is supposed to feel like, I now know that I once had a Super-O in my 4th year, but I did not know it then as I was looking for the wrong things. My advice here is whatever your expectations are, they’re probably wrong. I suspect a few people have been too focused on the traditional orgasm feelings that they miss this. I did.
HWFO can be overcome. You might be focusing too much on having a traditional orgasm, too much focus on external pleasure with your hands, or you might want to consider that perhaps your position might be the cause. I find laying on my back with my feet slightly elevated on something works best, preferable with bent knees. Largely YMMV.
My previous technique of exhausting myself works great as it makes it much easier to relax and let go when I’m tired. This greatly helps, especially to reach the Super-O State of Mind. I have high anxiety as it is, so I think this helps mitigate that. It might be helpful for anyone out there with similar anxiety issues. Can’t say if drugs help, I’ve never done them and don’t plan to.
I’ve also been doing NoFap and NoPorn since my 4th year. NoPorn has helped make better fantasies which is a plus. NoFap has been great at putting a break in between sessions which I think most people don’t do enough of. I now only have sessions once a week, but they’ve great sessions. Overdoing gets you no where except feeling drained. I’m not saying you have to out right stop, but doing off it might help as I think addiction to these things impedes progress. YMMV.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/7zf4un/my_latest_supero_and_answers_to_questions_i/
Ha! You said you would not let a HFWO ruin your session. I am at the stage where I would kill for one of those. Just one. Im only a few months into my practice though. I love the sessions so far. I never touch my penis during. I make sure to keep penis touching between my wife and I and the Aneros is purely for alone time hands free.