[Thanks to @Turnrow and @Harper for providing me the inspiration for this blog]
Male Chastity “Roadblock”
Self-imposed male chastity has been extremely sexually stimulating for me. Since I can’t masturbate or ejaculate while wearing a “chastity cup”, I am frequently awakened in the middle of the night with a powerful, raging erection. Then, I find myself squirming around on the bed for 20, 30 or more minutes, waiting for the erection to subside which it always does. Oh, how I wish, beg for an ejaculation at that time.
That period of time is very frustrating (obviously) for me. It is also very mentally challenging to remain in chastity, waiting at the roadblock, and not give-in to the frustration. Sometimes, I embark on an Aneros “journey” as well. But that can only increase the frustration due to prostate stimulation that does not result in an ejaculation (HFWO) either. And sometimes, I have to give-up and go-around the roadblock (“blue-balls” is to blame) and ejaculate. And that got me thinking…..is there another way to mentally “get through” this chastity “roadblock” in one piece and yet remain in chastity? I wondered and fell deeper into this meditation….
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I began to meditate on the difference between a “roadblock” and a “bridge”, and what I discovered was quite amazing. Let me explain….
Male Chastity “Bridge to Tranquility”
I imagined a “bridge to tranquility” which incorporates male chastity but looked beyond the frustration, the sexual agony of holding back cum, holding back an ejaculation. What I discovered was a new way of looking at male chastity from this bridge. What lies on the other side of the bridge? Ah, that is where this meditation came together and made sense…
On the other side of this “tranquility bridge” lies a peaceful sense of sexual calmness. At some point on the road beyond the bridge will lie a nocturnal emission (or “wet dream”). I have not arrived at that point in the road just yet, however. This road is peaceful and calm. It is a welcome respite from the frustration of sexual denial. On the road beyond the bridge are also some Aneros “way stations” which can be soothing and calming.
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I can choose to remain at the chastity “roadblock to frustration” and go nowhere or instead select to cross the chastity “bridge to tranquility” and travel a new road. It is an easy choice for me at this point in time and one which I hope will yield more mental stability in this “chastity journey”. Where will the road lead me? To another roadblock, or a new bridge?
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/male-chastity-roadblock-to-frustration-or-bridge-to-tranquility/