Background
A lot of guys here on Aneros complain about lack of arousal and consequently, poor sessions. I have been in that camp as well. I tried something different last night. Before retiring to bed, instead of putting-on a “chastity cup” I decided to put-on a regular jockstrap. So I put-on my new Duke swimmer’s jock along with a silky pair of boxers. The Duke jockstrap has a somewhat rough pouch (I don’t wear it anymore in the pool because of some irritation it causes) and it provides good stimulation of an erect penis within. It also has a longer pouch than others and supports my package very well.
I slept for about 8 hours with this combo and I remember dreaming quite vividly (but not erotically). The rough jock pouch provided more intense stimulation than a hard cup. I awoke with a nice erection and decided then to take-off the “regular” pouch and replace it with a hard cup. I selected the Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which now feels very comforting and secure.
Aftermath
Yes, I was very aroused and “ready” for a session this morning. I could easily have had one while wearing the hard cup and I knew which model I would use (Helix Trident). But I said “NO!” to myself! Why? I began to think about it and I believe I know the answer. Much the same way as when you are very horny and aroused with an aching erection, what do you want to do? Have sex? Masturbate and ejaculate? Edge? You can stimulate your cock, of course, and eventually ejaculate. But you can say NO! and withhold that pleasure for a while longer. I do that all the time now while in chastity.
It is the same way with the prostate. You begin to get “prostate horny” and what do you want to do? Have a session; experience a few prostate orgasms, perhaps have a HFWO if you are lucky. But you can say NO! Not now! You want your prostate to be aching, begging you for a session and so you say time and time again, NO! Just like in male chastity, you ache for that ejaculation, you want to cum so badly. In my case, I probably will get “blue-balls” if I delay ejaculating for too long. Saying NO! seems to make the ejaculation that much better, that much more welcome. So saying NO! to a prostate-massage session IMHO can really ramp-up your arousal and hence the forthcoming, highly-anticipated pleasures of a prostate massage. This morning, I was really “ready” for a session. But I postponed that “pleasure” for another day, another time. Did I enjoy saying NO? Of course not! But in the end, it may make for a much better, much more arousing session!
Put that in your pipe and smoke it!
PS The “soft” jockstrap pouch allows much direct stimulation of the penis while sleeping and hence can induce an ejaculation at some point. The “hard cup” on the other hand, does not allow such direct stimulation. It is much harder (if not impossible) to have an ejaculation while wearing one. The only way I found is through a ‘wet dream’.
PS I think that it is important to realize the benefits of “natural arousal” of the male body and take advantage of it before attempting a prostate massage session. You want to achieve that arousal by taking advantage of natural processes such as NPT (nocturnal penile tumescence, or night-time erections). Another way is by withholding ejaculations (semen retention) and allowing the prostate to “want” a release through ejaculation. I’d like to say: “If you don’t feel it…don’t force it!” Sometime, just the element of time is all that is needed between a “so-so” session and a session full of dry-o’s!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/some-sure-fire-ways-to-boost-arousal/