I’ve been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm for a while now, and until today had actually given up on the idea of having one.
After a shower earlier tonight I decided to give it another shot, I had already orgasmed earlier in the day but I figured I may as well give it a shot. I dried myself off, and laid out the towel on my bathroom floor, popped in the helix and laid down on my front and just focused on relaxing. I had read recently that you should keep contractions minimal, as you are trying to gently massage the prostate and contract super hard and squeeze out all of the fluid.
After about 5 minutes of focus on the feeling I started to get a warm feeling, radiating from my prostate, this grew in to an intense sensation but as my breathing and heart rate increased this subsided. After a few more minutes I experienced another wave of the same sensations, and again they subsided as my heart rate increased..
I laid there after these two waves of pleasure, relaxing and focusing on the feeling. While it was nice, I didn’t manage to build up to the same feeling again, and after about 40 minutes I stopped.
While the feeling was great, it wasn’t anything like what I have read prostate orgasms feel like, it was pleasurable but passed quickly and wasn’t even close to a penile orgasm.
So my question is, after finally achieving what I think is a prostate orgasm, where do I go from here? How can I try to increase the intensity? and does this all just come with practice?
TLDR: I managed some weak prostate orgasms, but don’t know how to go from there. Any advice is appreciated.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/9akbsx/think_i_just_had_my_first_prostate_orgasm_where/
From my years of reasearch, it seems that you’re well on your way to a succesful super orgasm. It isn’t going to feel anything like a penile orgasm. The whole getting to an edge then spilling over doesn’t happen. You have to relax into the pleasure and really start to enjoy the fact tour prostate is orgasming. It should build and build. Easier said than done though. Mind I personally haven’t quite achieved a super orgasm so take what you will…
Also you previously had an orgasm earlier that day. Perhaps next time try after a day or two of abstinence and see if the feeling is stronger.
Good luck man! I’m really excited for you!
My first prostate orgasm was with the Helix, so good choice of aneros devices.
I think what happened to cause the sensation to subside was that you were becoming to excited. I think subconsciously you began to go for the result. Whereas at the start, you just put it in to get whatever you would get. Go with the glow as they say. As you would relax and enjoy the current status of oral sex, so should you just enjoy what you feel in the moment. I have found that what I would do is mostly hold a contraction more than I would leave it released. Doing that causes a constant pressure which could be what you need to send you over the edge. Then you can do some muscle relaxing, contractions, and holds to have multiple full body orgasms. Once you have your first it become much easier