I have a progasm and helix for the last two years. I enjoy using them and have gotten p waves with them a few times, but mostly I wear them when I’m having sex with the GF or preparing for pegging. I never have had a full Super O only with a AL stimulation (only while pegging a very few times).
My GF had to go back home during to family health issues so I’ve taken this time to challenge myself. No Cumming (from jerking off) until I see her again. It’s been one week so far and Im already so God damn horny. It’s looking like it’s going to be another two weeks until I see her. I haven’t gone that long without cumming since the first few weeks of living in a dorm years ago lol.
How long do you think I will have to wait and refrain from cumming? I know by this week’s end I’ll be driven nuts. So how should I take advantage of this time to really learn how to cum anally? I don’t think I have a breathing technique established. Can someone point me in the run to direction that?
One thing Ive never understood is how the movement should be of the toy? Should I be squeezing so hard it’s going “in and out” of my ass or its more so “moving incrementally millimeter (or centimeter) by millimeter across my prostate?
I tried last night with it while watching porn and found it felt really good if I barely stroked myself ever so softly or just held my cock steady and then I was grinding my hips into the bed in pleasure. But am I supposed to be at the point where I’m just pumping kegels and it should feel good? I was trying there but wasn’t feeling much pleasure doing kegels
I plan to edge myself every night so wish me luck?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/fwb6dz/since_im_quarantined_and_separated_from_the_gf_im/
I’m hoping you get that Super O man! I’ve said the same thing before but I didn’t have the willpower. I’m really routing for you.
I remember your story on r/sex long ago about you first learning about prostate orgasms. Hopefully you can unlock them with aneros. Surprised you don’t after already having them. What is it exactly that causes you to have prostate orgasms that aneros doesn’t give you if I may ask? I’ve been trying for a while and would love guidance. You may PM me if you need to! (*sigh* or chat since reddit seems to be silently and slowly removing private messaging)
For me, breathing is one of the keys to an orgasm. My technique is as follows: I breathe in through my nose, starting to fill the top of my lungs and then the bottom. I exhale by first emptying the bottom of my lungs and then the top. After a few minutes, I begin to perceive the beginning of an orgasm every time my lungs are full or empty. A kind of micro-orgasm. But I have to fill or empty my lungs as much as possible to feel this pleasure. This sensation eventually develops into beautiful prostatic orgasms. As far as voluntary contractions are concerned, they should be as weak as possible. The involuntary contractions will be the only ones that will be strong as far as I am concerned.
Of course you also have to be sexually aroused, which won’t be difficult in your case! Personally, my longest clean time was once 3 weeks, a long time ago, when I was in my thirties…
I’ve not cum for three months now trying to get the anal super O I was using a dildo for ages to no avail but have now switched to an Aneros now. love to know how you get on.
PS. the not orgasm thing does get easier as time goes on.
So the biggest issue I have is mindset. I can get frustrated when nothing happens after a certain amount of time, and sometimes even when I’m having some sensation if I get “in my head” – either about progress, or I get distracted by a random thought and cannot clear my mind again – it’s normally the kiss of death for a session. I’d expect the difference between your pegging experiences and Aneros experiences might be similar: it’s easier to shut off when someone else is driving the sensation, and as much as Aneros is supposed to trigger involuntary actions, there’s a manual element that you need to get a handle on. That’s where I typically stumble (I’ve had a few supers, but not for a while and not consistently… still working it out too!).
I mention all this to back up my first tip – consider making your goal to make progress in this time, rather than to completely solve this puzzle. Progress is crucial, but if you’re chasing the endpoint of a super-O you risk frustrating yourself if you don’t feel you’re getting close enough. This might sound like conceding or allowing defeat, but seeking progress and making it is better than seeking supers and not, y’know? Remember that for most, successful Aneros super-O’s require “rewiring” and not stimulating your dick at the same time. If you’ve been fucking with it in (and zero judgment – I jerk with it in often, last night in fact, even though I know I prob shouldn’t haha!!) that can be a barrier.
Second, there was a post on here some time back which reshared info from the Aneros forums. The gist of it was to contract your prostate, then clench your butt at a similar level, and then loosen but keep your butt muscles clenched at like 80% to your prostates 100%. Holding that imbalance is helpful. I’ll see if I can find and repost.
Good luck buddy!!!
I disagree that seamen retention leads to better prostate orgasms. Every body is different but my wife and I have an active sex life, 4x a week normally. Almost always on my 3 night with no sex, I pop in an aneros or work on an aless.
I suggest you be so much vocal to set free your mind and body. It helps a lot! Scream if is necessary.
Good luck 😉