My wife and I engaged in a few strapon sessions over the years and I played with butt plugs and dildos alone. I didn’t know special prostate play toys existed or that it was pretty mainstream now until recently. I thought I was strange.
To other seniors, how does your wife accept your prostate play? Do you do it alone or just together?
I would love to chat with another mature married man.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/g9nihy/seeking_other_senior_65_married_men_new_to/
you will prob get some varied answers here for all kinds of ppl.
i am 51 m married for 27 years. straight if that matters. I have been playing with my p spot for at least 5+ years. My SO has no interest in that kind of play. She know i have toys but has not ever asked. She has IBS so i kind of get it. not fun to play back there. I have had some amazing feelings and playtime on my own, and just wishing that maybe one day she will join me just to see how good it can feel. She has never told me not to play or throw them out either.
I know of some men here that their SO will play along with them and it can be from the very gentle to quite rough sex.
I’m 62 and have in the last couple years discovered prostate play. My wife of 16 years has no interest in anything anal for me or herself. And since she has no interest, I haven’t told her about it. 🙁
I’m a 70 year old man at prostate play for a couple of years now. Introduced my wife to my use of Aneros about 6 months ago. She is totally supportive and we have incorporated butt play (for me only) into our sex life. Breaking the news was easy, I just lead with the health benefits.