I got my aneros helix syn trident a bit less than a week ago, so far I’ve had 4 sessions, all of them were the ‘Do nothing’ technique that lasted more than at least 2 hours. All my sessions were a failure and had to end it up using my hand to masturbate, orgasm and ejaculate. After each session my body got more and more familiar with aneros inside me but I still couldn’t tell if it hitted my prostate or not, but my orgasm and ejaculations felt better and stronger so it had to touch my prostate. The only time I was certain I could feel was when I ejaculate. Eventually I gave it a rest and kept it away for a couple if days. Now on the next night of my 5th session, I was in a very good and relaxed mood, before I slept I thought I might give it another try. I was on my side lower leg straight upper leg up to my stomach. Before minutes nothing amazing happened I was just relaxing and paying attention to my whole body. I then started to feel the aneros pressuring the prostate which faded faded gradually in 8 seconds. This feeling occured about 12 times in the span of 40 minutes. The next 10 minutes were the same thing but accompanied by warmth all over my body which grew warmer and warmer as my heart starts pounding harder and harder. It feels like the aneros was literally attached to my anus and can now feel it without losing it. I just let it happened whilst keeping my composure even though I felt like something big was coming up as my feelings grew intense. I took 2 very deep breaths that i held for 8 seconds each. The next feeling was something I’ve never felt before, I felt like cumming and the aneros pressed on my prostate harder than ever before, I felt like cumming so I intentionally use about 5 to 10% of my sphincter muscle to rub my prostate, my cock was throbbing like hell this intense feeling happened only 4 times in a span of less than 1 minute. I couldn’t feel anything anymore for the next hour so I gave it a stop and ended my session again by masturbating. I don’t know if I experience mini P wave or something like that but that feeling was better than masturbating it didn’t even compare. Now I don’t feel the need to achieve super O, I give up, that feeling was enough and I’m grateful for it. I learned 4 important things.
1. There are stages to relaxing (it’s not like off and on) with practice you can reach deeper relaxation faster but still you have to go through the stages.
2. Breathe deep, relax, and keep your attention to the feeling of the body. Your mind should be awake and aware.
3. To stimulate the prostate, you don’t even have to use 100% of the sphincter muscle it’s in fact the opposite. Let your body become the captain.
4. By using your muscles to stimulate your organ you also prevent your body from feeling thr full pleasure of it. Funny isn’t it?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/g9s1lx/i_give_up/
If it feels good just explore those feelings. Orgasms are fun but you shouldn’t worry about having them. I try to just think of it as relaxation time and that helps me.
For me things started to feel after one year
You’re on the right track!
Keep it up, the Super O’s will be here eventually.
Have you tried pushing down on it to get more of an angle toward your prostate? When I do this to my SO, he always gets more sensation. Obviously I’m not a ton of help, though. Don’t give up! It’s a lot of fun to play with the aneros, even as a couple.
I personally did this with this massager for a very long time, in search of new sensations, I even spent more than a year, and I think about 6 years, but not a little time has passed, at least even at a time that I really didn’t worked the whole system. Such are the things))
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ps. sorry translate ^-^
ps2.and during this time I (tried), it seems to me, a lot of different massagers