Hey not sure if im the first but im 16 years old and im getting tired of the jacking off shit ive been hearing about prostate orgasms and i didnt believe it. I want to buy an aneros and get started but what would you recommend and how does it feel like? Cause from what ive been seeing its like magic but i wanna explore it. Im a straight male but i hate how prostate play is considered “gay” why do people think that way? But again am i too young?
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A lot of folks call the process of learning the prostate to be “rewiring” nerve sensitivity. To that end, it’s well known that brain plasticity is higher when younger.
I wish I had started at your age.
PS: It’s not gay and there’s nothing wrong with men having sex with men consensually.
Tbh I wish I had started earlier. Also whish I was able to afford my own toys at that age. So if you can, go for it.
Legally depending on where you live, you are probably “too young” to purchase one.
Physically / mentally? Probably not.
As for it being “gay,” it’s only gay if you find men sexually attractive (which is 100% okay to feel that way).
*disclaimer: the following is general advice that I’m leaving here for anyone who wants to explore butt play:*
However, you have nerve endings and areas back there that can feel good when stimulated (some folks don’t like the feeling), and it’s totally okay to explore your body and learn what feels good for you so that when the time comes that you’re ready to have sex with another person you can communicate to that person what feels good.
I will say from my own experiences with exploring butt stuff when I was younger: please do not stick anything up there that doesn’t have a wide base (to prevent total insertion), you don’t want an embarrassing trip to the doctor (or surgery!) to get it removed.
just listen to your body: if you’re doing something and it hurts, that’s a good sign to stop what you’re doing. Pain is the warning signal to the brain that damage is being done.
go slow: start with smaller toys before working your way up to bigger ones.
Overall TL/DR:
I would probably wait until you’re legally old enough to buy one. It’s not gay. Trim your finger nails. Don’t stick household objects up your bum. Water based lubricant is compatible with almost all toys, and is easy to cleanup.
Lastly: have fun, be safe.
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No way im 19 and i wish i discovered prostate play when i was 16 and no its not “gay” whatsoever. And if you were gay there is nothing wrong with that either. Every man has a prostate and if you want to have orgasms and you aren’t attracted to males then you aren’t gay at all its 100% normal in fact. But no youre not too young its perfect just make sure you buy them online since you cant buy them in store since its 18+