That’s all I came to say.
I’ve spent a few months in this sub and have noticed quite a bit of toxic “THIS IS THE WAY TO DO IT NOT THAT WAY YOU IDIOT” energy so I came to just add some energy in the other direction.
Everyone experiences feelings and sensations differently. What might be someone’s “P-wave” might be your “Super-O” and you can call it whatever the fuck you want.
I just am a human who likes sex and enjoys seeing others enjoy sex and their bodies in ways that sometimes weren’t prescribed to us which can be very difficult and feel vulnerable for some. Don’t let what might already be a sensitive area or activity for you be ruined by a bunch of anecdotes from people who like to think of themselves as the Lewis and Clarks of butt play.
You are exploring your butt like many men have done before you for generations. It’s normal. We just don’t talk about it a lot. I would just say breathe, relax, and explore. Find what feels good for you.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/i56zsp/everyones_body_is_different/
I’d upvote again solely for “Lewis and Clarks of butt play”
Something I’ve noticed from my own journey and reading these forums, is that people put too much weight on categorizing what they are feeling. Or they’re trying to aline their own experience perfectly with someone else’s. Instead of enjoying themselves, it seems they come away disappointed because they only got p waves and not 10 super O’s or whatever.
Enjoy it! There are valuable tips here. There are also a large number of “what am I doing wrong” or “what’s the best way to do _____” which only invites criticism.